Gebidozo Posted May 15, 2024 Share Posted May 15, 2024 7 hours ago, Els said: The OP seems to be saying that she was already in a relationship with these guys and they never wanted her to initiate during the relationship, though. That's... unusual, IMO. Very unusual, I’d even say nearly inexplicable. Maybe they had very low libido, or very insecure, or extreme control freaks, I don’t know. Link to post Share on other sites
Maldives Posted May 15, 2024 Share Posted May 15, 2024 On 5/13/2024 at 1:40 AM, sedgwick said: I've had two relationships in the last 17 years, and both guys seemed REALLY annoyed when I initiated sex, to the point that it crushed my self-esteem and led to many unwanted, celibate years. Shockingly, and completely unexpectedly, I've met somebody, and we're going on our first date this week. We've been talking for a couple of months, and it seems we're super hot for each other. But I don't feel like it would ever be okay for me to initiate any physical stuff, so I'm trying to figure out how to keep my cool and refrain. I guess I'm just wondering if there are any men reading this who would actually like it if a woman kissed you first, or initiated sex once you were dating. I've heard guys say they would, but in my experience, that hasn't been the case. Because I like this new person a lot, I'm trying to figure out how to keep my desire for him under wraps when we actually start dating. I hate that this seems necessary, but based on the last two decades of my life, it does. Are there any men reading this who really, truly like it when women make the first move, or would you prefer to always be the one to do it? If you do like it, how do you prefer that she does it? I don't know if I'll ever have the courage again, but in my dream relationship, I could let my partner know I wanted him. Yes me Link to post Share on other sites
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