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doingtherightthing
34 minutes ago, stillafool said:

I'm glad you've moved on and gotten away from this situation at your previous job.  I read back through this thread and see that your ex boss has a newborn.  So he probably has been without sex for some time now and is so horny he's being inappropriate with you as well as his client and who knows who else. I've seen other men in his situation act like that and it is uncomfortable for women who have to work close to him.  Even though he did say he as "committed" to his wife, I'm sure she'd be terribly hurt if she knew he were acting this way behind her back while she's trying to nurse their baby and heal.

Absolutely, it’s sad to see.
Once again, I learned a lot about myself as well. I’ve learned that I’m more self-aware than before and able to take baby steps in establishing my boundaries. I have had not the best experience with establishing physical boundaries with the opposite sex due to fear. I noticed that I tend to go back and forth in establishing my boundaries due to self-doubt, however I am taking steps to ensure that I’m keeping myself in check and act/respond professionally so there’s no misunderstanding and miscommunication on what is permissible towards me. 
I had an interview today for a much better opportunity for my career and they’re ready to take the next step in the interview process. I am paying close attention to red flags in the beginning and will act accordingly. 

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stillafool
2 minutes ago, doingtherightthing said:

I had an interview today for a much better opportunity for my career and they’re ready to take the next step in the interview process.

Oh, this is great and I wish you luck.

 

3 minutes ago, doingtherightthing said:

I noticed that I tend to go back and forth in establishing my boundaries due to self-doubt, however I am taking steps to ensure that I’m keeping myself in check and act/respond professionally so there’s no misunderstanding and miscommunication on what is permissible towards me. 

This is great.  When we no better, we do better.  All the best.

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1 hour ago, stillafool said:

Oh, this is great and I wish you luck.

 

This is great.  When we no better, we do better.  All the best.

Thank you! I’m glad that you guys kept up with me and still supported me through ups and downs. 

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