Robert907856 Posted June 10 Share Posted June 10 Ive been knowing my counselor since i was 16 and she gave me signs that she intrested in me. She worked at my school when i first met her. They moved her to a diffrent school and later she became my counselor when i was 17. She told me that she fought hard to be my counselor and that she told her boss that she wanted to be my counselor. My counselor came to my house for session. I told her that i was going to get something from my room. I was at my room for like 20 seconds and she comes and tells me "your not gonna give me a tour". When she did that i was 18. Was she trying to sleep with me? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 10 Share Posted June 10 As this is going on in your house, you need to discuss this situation with your parents. Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 11 Share Posted June 11 (edited) That really isn't an indication in anyway she wants sleep with you. It's customary for people to give new guests quick tours around their house the first time they come in and if you didn't do that she may have thought it was a little rude. At most it was just an awkward social situation but unless she came into your room and gave you a suggestive sexual comment there really isn't much evidence to your idea. Edited June 11 by Sony12 Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted June 11 Share Posted June 11 I think interpretation is one thing, body language something else entirely. I'd say she was probably being overly friendly and you probably read more into it than it actually was. How is your dating life? My experience is if your dating life if not good its very easy to read more into situations like this. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted June 11 Share Posted June 11 It’s incredibly inappropriate for a counsellor to visit your home or to have a relationship with you. She could lose her job and her ability to work as a counsellor. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 11 Share Posted June 11 If she does, then she is what you would call a predator. A) she shouldn't attend your house unless your parents are present, and B) you should tell your parents. Link to post Share on other sites
FredEire Posted June 11 Share Posted June 11 I know this kind of thing can be a bit of a teenage fantasy, but it's seriously weird, unprofessional and predatory if she was actually trying to het you into bed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robert907856 Posted June 11 Author Share Posted June 11 7 minutes ago, FredEire said: I know this kind of thing can be a bit of a teenage fantasy, but it's seriously weird, unprofessional and predatory if she was actually trying to het you into bed. Do you think she was? Alot of people are telling me no and alot of people are telling me yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Robert907856 Posted June 13 Author Share Posted June 13 On 6/11/2024 at 12:08 PM, smackie9 said: If she does, then she is what you would call a predator. A) she shouldn't attend your house unless your parents are present, and B) you should tell your parents. Do you think she wanted to? Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 14 Share Posted June 14 15 hours ago, Robert907856 said: Do you think she wanted to? Ask her...only she knows. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 16 Share Posted June 16 On 6/12/2024 at 7:58 AM, Robert907856 said: Do you think she was? Alot of people are telling me no and alot of people are telling me yes Nobody is a mind reader. Your post is all written in past tense. Are you still getting therapy from her? If not, there's really not much point in worrying about it Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted June 17 Share Posted June 17 On 6/11/2024 at 5:58 PM, Robert907856 said: Do you think she was? Alot of people are telling me no and alot of people are telling me yes Counselors have ethical standards where you don’t sleep with a client. That is before factoring in school counselors with under 18 yr olds Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts