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I just found out my wife cheated 12 years later


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MsJayne
19 hours ago, JustMeThatGuy said:

She says she doesn't block anyone who hasn't done anything offensive to her.

She's still paying you back for what you did years ago. Technically and morally this guy has done nothing to hurt you, he was under the impression she was properly single at the time they were dating, so you need to leave him out of the equation. Her refusal to cease contact with him is just her still using him to needle you, it's a way of sticking it up you without using any effort at all. In my book this a declaration of war, so point your anger at her, not some unsuspecting dude she's turned into a weapon to goad you with. She's doing to you what you did to her, except she's doing it out in the open. She has a lot of anger towards you, so maybe just ask her whether she'd like to move on from the past and stop with the stupid mind-games or get a divorce. I'd go see a family law specialist and get my legal ducks lined up before having a conversation with her about it all. 

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JustMeThatGuy
On 6/21/2024 at 8:20 AM, Bryanp said:

If the roles were reversed, how do you think your wife would react to you

saying it,s no big deal because it's just what people do on social media?

I think she'd blow a gasket 

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