joel Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 any of u guys met or date girls who had or has a lotttt of freinds who are guys or let's say majority of em are guys. also these guys are good looking too-trendy clohtes, good jobs, educated.... etc. what do u think of this-and she tells u shes single too. also for guys having lot of friends who are girls -what do u as the girl who is dating the guy think of this-ok , what not. lets say they are really close too like good close freinds-always hang out and this and that-joke around. what are these ppl called and why are they liked that-i usually find guys sticking with guys and girls and girls- guys who have lotf of friends who are girls can be called gay, and girls with lots of guy friends are called attention whores or tom boys. i for one find it hard to make freinds who are girls-either dating em or jsut forget about it-i mean how can guy and girl just be freinds-just too much problems and hormones. i mean what do u talk to em about-yea cars, girls, boobs, yea lol nothing. and most girls i now like to hang with girls too and guys with guys.
clandestinidad Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 I'm a ummm....girl....and I dont really like many girls, so I've always gotten on better with guys. Gotten on in a friend sense, not gotten on as in 'on top of' or gotten IT on.......no, thats a lie...I've gotten it on with quite a few guys.....maybe I just dont like girls in any sense....I dont know, I surely fantasize about them......can I ramble some more??? I think so.... I wouldnt worry about it, really. Some guys get ALONG better with girls, and some girls get along best with guys. However, when I'm in a serious relationship I cool it with the guy friends, so that my man doesnt worry about anything. Are you concerned about something?? What made you ask such things??? (jeeeez, what a weird post. Now ya'll are starting to see it...I guess I hid it long enough)
Lucasarts Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 humm i have lots of girl friends...they usually stem from being in a relationship with a girl, a co-worker relationship (im friends with a 30 year old woman!), and surprising ex-g/f's. having girl friends is good because they help provide the other pov (the woman's). They also are more understanding and helpful at times when a man can't be the macho/media hyped up guy he's supposed to be. plus flirting with girl friends is lots of fun. though just chillin wit the guys is fun as well um youre obviously not thinking when you dont know what to talk to girls about...that right there is a problem. you would be surprised to know what the girls talk about amongst themselves...and it isnt about what their clothes or perfume are like. u treat girls like guy friends, just be a goofball and have a good time. dont try to be some hot shot and make them fall in love with you.
Mary3 Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 Thats a tough one : Your guy who has lots of girls as friends : Well I learned you have to adjust to it because YOU will go before they will. If a girl has lots of guy friends I am sure most guys would have to do the same : adjust. It would be nice if neither had opposite sex friends but today its so common that to extinquish it is nearly impossible. ....
Lucasarts Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 why do you think that neither should have opposite sex friends Mary3?
JayKay Posted December 31, 2005 Posted December 31, 2005 I always used to have more men friends than girl friends. They were just easier for me to get along with. It always bothered any serious BF I had that guys would call me. They would get so freaking jealous and usually demand I drop the friendships. Well, I only have about 2-3 guy friends left after many years. I've learned never to drop a friend for the sake of a jealous sig. other. Romance fades..friendships are the real deal.
Mary3 Posted January 1, 2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Well for me its something that I have adjusted to . Its quite common that someone has girls / or guys friends . I have guy friends too so I can look at in that perspective.
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