ZA Dater Posted June 23 Share Posted June 23 On 6/22/2024 at 12:09 AM, Goodguy05 said: Met this nice African woman on hinge and seem to get along really well. We haven't been on a date but have talked of It and she's open to it but here's the catch... She told me she's only been in the country 4 months which is okay and she's not working and looking for a job and has two teenage kids which are still in Africa. She lives probably 30 km away doesn't drive but all the above started making me have some doubts. Seems like hard work what are your thoughts? I'm not sure if there is even a point to going out for a coffee. Am I overthinking it or or are they valid concerns? I sent her a link to help her with a job for a online teaching gig I do but even then she can't afford a headset and asked if I happened to have a spare one as she doesn't have one lol. Avoid this scenario. Walk away, actually run away. Though I guess it depends if you want to help her get onto her feet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted June 23 Share Posted June 23 OP I once matched with a very attractive lady from Bulgaria, 30 min later she was asking me to fly her over to spend time with me and maybe she would stay. I know of people who tried this lark, ultimately it worked for some, was a disaster for many and it can only work if you have lots of resources. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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