Author ZA Dater Posted July 19 Author Share Posted July 19 29 minutes ago, Gaeta said: You only value yourself through the eyes of these beautiful women. If a beautiful woman of 5'10'' tall, shaped like a model, smart & witty gives you attention then you feel valued. You have value even when nobody looks at you. What is that value? Find it..... I know my value as a person and each day I try be the best person I can be in terms of how I treat those around me and those I meet during any given day. Unfortunately that does not make me attractive to the smart intelligent lady with tons of dating options. Link to post Share on other sites
happyhorizons Posted July 19 Share Posted July 19 15 minutes ago, ZA Dater said: I know my value as a person and each day I try be the best person I can be in terms of how I treat those around me and those I meet during any given day. Unfortunately that does not make me attractive to the smart intelligent lady with tons of dating options. Z, don’t be hard on yourself and recognize that “lighting can strike” when you least expect it (in terms of finding a great connection with someone). Be optimistic as opposed to pessimistic and keep dating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ZA Dater Posted July 19 Author Share Posted July 19 What I am going to do is retain some hope of a positive outcome with this particular person, despite the fact I suspect the only chance I had I messed up and she has probably moved on. Metaphorically I think we all walk along a road, the scenery differs, the gradient differs and the surface differs but we all hope that while walking that road we find someone to walk with us, someone to enjoy the warmth of summer, to keep warm with through the cold of winter, someone to pick up when they trip, someone to motivate when the gradient is taxing and someone to smile with when the joys of the road reveal themselves. For me I suspect that "person" will be completely fictional. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ZA Dater Posted July 19 Author Share Posted July 19 (edited) 8 minutes ago, happyhorizons said: Z, don’t be hard on yourself and recognize that “lighting can strike” when you least expect it (in terms of finding a great connection with someone). Be optimistic as opposed to pessimistic and keep dating. Its unlikely unfortunately, I had an excellent opportunity and ruined it because I was inexperienced and did not know how to handle the situation. I also would not know what to do now either. Edited July 19 by ZA Dater Link to post Share on other sites
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