Broke up 6 months ago: What's wrong with me and what's happening to me?

[mark clemson]

On 7/3/2024 at 1:33 PM, SurfCity said:

He's admitted in his threads from years ago that he struggles with basic hygiene, basic social skills,

I don't that think he's trolling, I think that he has pretty serious problems/issues.

That's why I think he's probably a troll. Guys who struggle with hygiene and social skills tend not to get a girl at all. IF he did, he's one of the rare exceptions.

 

1 hour ago, HopelessNick said:

Am I a sociopath? 

I think it's perhaps 75% likely that you're a troll writing as if you were one for attention.

Edited July 5 by mark clemson

[HopelessNick]

29 minutes ago, mark clemson said:

That's why I think he's probably a troll. Guys who struggle with hygiene and social skills tend not to get a girl at all. IF he did, he's one of the rare exceptions.

I struggle with social skills when there's more than one person involved. And, all I did with her was be playfully arrogant and it worked. As I've said, I only cared about hygiene on the days I was going to see her. Of course she wouldn't be able to know. 

Please don't assume anything and just stick with what I've told everyone. 

Edited July 5 by HopelessNick

[mark clemson]

29 minutes ago, HopelessNick said:

 I only cared about hygiene on the days I was going to see her. Of course she wouldn't be able to know.

Of course she WOULD know. You think a lifetime of not brushing your teeth is so easy to hide? You'd know it isn't if this was your actual practice.

 

29 minutes ago, HopelessNick said:

Please don't assume anything and just stick with what I've told everyone. 

I certainly tend to accept what I consider reasonable requests from what I consider sincere posters. In this case the answer's No.

[Gebidozo]

1 hour ago, mark clemson said:

That's why I think he's probably a troll. Guys who struggle with hygiene and social skills tend not to get a girl at all. IF he did, he's one of the rare exceptions.

Well, the OP says he “got” the girl through some trickery, quasi-blackmail, and pretending. She was continuously having an affair while being with him, and dumped him after six months. I don’t think this really qualifies as “getting” her at all.

 

[mark clemson]

A fair point and I suppose there is a reasonable chance (e.g. 25%) that she just let him "orbit" or even be with her (unfortunately) to avoid getting hurt/blackmailed, etc.

That is reasonable, but assumes the OP is speaking truth, which at this point (for myself only of course) I'm not really on board with. I think this is more in the flametrolling arena. C'est la vie.

Edited July 5 by mark clemson

[HopelessNick]

Ok please take me seriously one last time and then I'll stop posting. 

I told her what I found unfair in the end, this is what she said.

"Ok I get it Nick. We never deserved the way we treated each other".

What does that mean?

Edited July 5 by HopelessNick

[semble]

You need a qualified therapist to answer that question and work on a lot of other things while you're at it.

[basil67]

6 hours ago, HopelessNick said:

Ok please take me seriously one last time and then I'll stop posting. 

I told her what I found unfair in the end, this is what she said.

"Ok I get it Nick. We never deserved the way we treated each other".

What does that mean?

It means that she thinks you both behaved badly.

Why are you so hung up on 'fairness'?   Life isn't fair

[basil67]

@HopelessNick I just realised you've asked the same question on two different threads.   This attention seeking has gotten completely out of hand