Author KERVINA DOVELY Posted July 5, 2024 Author Posted July 5, 2024 46 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: I think that the fact that you spoke from January to April and he didn't make an effort to meet you during this time should be a red flag. It's understandable that he wanted to get to know you more before meeting, but if someone is truly interested and wants to make something happen, they will put in the effort to make it happen regardless. So, I wouldn't have really taken him seriously from that point on. I will take this in my head
Gaeta Posted July 5, 2024 Posted July 5, 2024 1 hour ago, KERVINA DOVELY said: He knows I'm religious If you are religious I am sure you can meet a nice man in your community right? People that are religious, go to Church, participate to charity events, often have a large network. There are also religious dating apps where you probably would meet men better suited for you. 2
Author KERVINA DOVELY Posted July 5, 2024 Author Posted July 5, 2024 15 minutes ago, Gaeta said: If you are religious I am sure you can meet a nice man in your community right? People that are religious, go to Church, participate to charity events, often have a large network. There are also religious dating apps where you probably would meet men better suited for you. The fact that someone goes to church means nothing. Demons come to church too. The church is like the hospital, it's so that sick people can find healing. But some of them have incurable diseases, if you know what I mean. . I believe that i will found the person that God have for me. I'll be patient.
FredEire Posted July 5, 2024 Posted July 5, 2024 1 hour ago, Alpacalia said: I think that the fact that you spoke from January to April and he didn't make an effort to meet you during this time should be a red flag. It's understandable that he wanted to get to know you more before meeting, but if someone is truly interested and wants to make something happen, they will put in the effort to make it happen regardless. So, I wouldn't have really taken him seriously from that point on. Indeed I think it's highly likely that he was seeming some other girls and keeping you on the back burner and when those fell through it was a green light. When you see this kind of thing expect something casual is probably what you'll get. 2
Gaeta Posted July 5, 2024 Posted July 5, 2024 24 minutes ago, KERVINA DOVELY said: The fact that someone goes to church means nothing. Demons come to church too. The church is like the hospital, it's so that sick people can find healing. But some of them have incurable diseases, if you know what I mean. . I believe that i will found the person that God have for me. I'll be patient. I am not that naïve to think only good people are in Church but there are good people there, it's a place where you can work your network. People know people that know people. May I ask how old you are? 1
Author KERVINA DOVELY Posted July 5, 2024 Author Posted July 5, 2024 5 minutes ago, Gaeta said: I am not that naïve to think only good people are in Church but there are good people there, it's a place where you can work your network. People know people that know people. May I ask how old you are? Im 30 yo but im a teenager in relationship.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 6, 2024 Posted July 6, 2024 In the future, keep these things in mind: 1) A man who is interested doesn't take 4 months to even suggest meeting you. That was your first signt that he wasn't very interested. 2) A man who is interested doesn't subsequently arrange only 4 dates in 3/4 months. That was your second sign that he wasn't very interested. 3) A man who is interested doesn't tell you can't commit because he doesn't know and then proceed to not make any effort get to know you. That is your third sign that he wasn't very interested. I understand that you are disappointed. But a lot of this can be avoided in the future if you get better at recognizing the signs that a man isn't that into you. 5
smackie9 Posted July 7, 2024 Posted July 7, 2024 You still have your training wheels on...you need to run into crap like this to learn and toughen up. Knowledge is power...learn, grow, move forward with what you have learned.
stillafool Posted July 7, 2024 Posted July 7, 2024 On 7/5/2024 at 2:16 PM, KERVINA DOVELY said: Im 30 yo but im a teenager in relationship. Why,? Is this your first time dating?
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