kizzle trizzle Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 i have been dating this girl for a year now. she has cheated on me before with some kid her friends knew (more then onece). one of my friends found out and told me. then i confrounted her and of coarse she told me nothing happend. finally she told me 3 months later, and it wasent even the full truth. i had to call her friend and ask her where she cheated on me at. well it wasent just a kiss goodbye now but 3 differant days, and to this day, i dont know what really happend. she told me she kissed him only, but he called her and stuff. but whatever, im over that. recently a lot of screwed up things happend with her friends that i noticed. and it seems like she is trying very hard to cover it up. i dont want to have to call her friedns to figure out what happend, it probably wont work, and it will make me look insecure and crazy. i wish there was a way she could tell me what had happend. but it was realy hard for her before, and since i know she has cheated, and lied to an extream, then i feel like she is going to pull the same crap she did before (and so far she has). i do talk to her about it but she tells me there is nothing. but there are still little details that i just cant ignore. i am positive she has cheated again, but no way to find out. maybe the easiest thing to do would be leave her. but this is the first girl i actually ever loved. how can i get her to tell me what happend? will she ever? or should i forget about this? or should i just leave her? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
BUTAFLY Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 Ok...she cheated once...she denied it for a while, and you gave her another chance. she cheats again and your suprised? You know the truth abuot her cheating the second time, but you don't want to believe it? or you just want to hear it from her? Ok if she does admit to it 2-3months down the line then what? I guess what I am saying is what are you willing to do about it? take her back or you just want the opportunity to yell at her? or are you gonna acutually have balls and get someone how treats you like you deserve? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 31, 2005 Share Posted December 31, 2005 Save your heart from a terible spill.. Dump her.. She is a cheater that doesn't own up to her games.. She doesn't carr that she hurt you the first time and she doesn't care that she hurt you a second time.. Don't give her the chance for a third time to hurt you Link to post Share on other sites
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