My ex who I broke up with less then a week ago if trying to get with my friend.

[Jane doee]

I’ll try to make this make sense for the people reading. My ex (who I’ll call B here) was always very pushy about having sex and doing sexual things but since I have dealt with a lot of trauma around sex because of things I f dealt with as a child I always explained to him I wasn’t comfortable with it and why but he never listened to me and everytime we hung out he kept trying to get me to do things with him. We were on and off with our relationship since last March and I just ended things with him on Saturday, my issue wasn’t breaking up with him since he seemed very understanding and seemed like he wasn’t hurt by it my main issue is that today I found out he’s trying to get with my friend (who we can call L). He’s been commenting on all her TikTok’s the last 3 day and my other friend (who we can call P) asked him if he liked L and he said “Idk”. Later today P messaged me saying she texted L to figure out if B asked her about anything and apparently they’ve been talking and he told her “Honestly you’ve been looking really good this summer ngl” and P told me that L said she’s gonna try to “Rizz him up” I know since I was the one that broke up with him I shouldn’t be upset but I jsut feel really hurt, and it’s going to be EXTREMELY awkward when school starts back up since my ex is friends with all of my friends. I’ve considered jsut blocking both B and L because I’m sick of them both but I don’t want to start drama next year at school since I’ve already had a very hard time since going to highschool (I’m going into 10th grade in September) if you have any advice on what I should do please please share because I feel like I’m losing my mind.

 

[stillafool]

How hurtful that your friend L would be willing to ruin your friendship by getting involved  with B.  Do you have any interest in remaining friends with her?  If not, block her and Bill.  I'm sure you don't want to talk to him again after this.  When school starts I would just look my best, ignore them if they are together, meet other guys and get good grades.

[Gebidozo]

Block them both. 

You don’t need B in your life at all, and L is a bad friend.