sickandtiredOfex Posted July 26 Share Posted July 26 (edited) After being coerced by narc ex to having sex with him for last time, yes for him to leave me alone for good I agreed to have sex over a month ago, it wasn't even sex it was oral sex I gave him outside. Since then he has messed me about. He said i could never make him cum, he always masturbated that's why he had trouble Cumming. He is a narcissist, there's no ifs or buts on it, he's genuinely cruel towards me. I sent him this "If someonewas wanting sex with me he wouldn't have me beg/call me names..this should have been over with weeks ago I can't compete with the others ur plowing the now and bet u don't have them begging or standing them up. im not last choice for anyone It's only sex and I can get that anywhere anyway and make those cocks cum. So to make sure u never contact me again becos u can't help it, I'm stopping it right now. You are one person I wished I kept in my the past" Then deactivated my email address. Yup I know his game, keep me hanging so it won't be last time and I'll be around because I keep running away from him. Will this do the trick on the cruel narc or is he going to do something bad to me? Edited July 26 by sickandtiredOfex Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 26 Share Posted July 26 3 hours ago, sickandtiredOfex said: Will this do the trick on the cruel narc or is he going to do something bad to me? He'll probably just find someone else to torment. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted July 27 Share Posted July 27 If you know he’s a narcissist why are you even in contact with him? Once you’re aware a person has a mental health condition which can make them dangerous to be around it’s on you if you continue to engage with them. My advice is block this person on every device you have. Don’t feel bad about him moving on to other women, he’ll abuse them too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted July 30 Share Posted July 30 On 7/26/2024 at 10:03 AM, sickandtiredOfex said: yes for him to leave me alone for good I agreed to have sex over a month ago This was your first mistake. On 7/26/2024 at 10:03 AM, sickandtiredOfex said: Since then he has messed me about. And this was your second mistake. Stop talking to the man. He will get bored and find someone else to use. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 30 Share Posted July 30 If you know he's a narc just block him and be on your way. There's no need to explain anything to him, just block him from contacting you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sickandtiredOfex Posted July 30 Author Share Posted July 30 2 hours ago, stillafool said: If you know he's a narc just block him and be on your way. There's no need to explain anything to him, just block him from contacting you. He's had 12 years to get bored and hasn't yet. I did ignore him and went hard on the ignoring and he duped me. I'm actually gutted I let myself down to be hurt again by this man. The things he said and says is enough to drive anyone to suicide Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 5 hours ago, sickandtiredOfex said: He's had 12 years to get bored and hasn't yet. But aren't you bored by now and tired of his abuse? You don't need him to want to stop seeing you for you to stop seeing him. You are in control of you so why do you stay around him and let him continue to hurt you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sickandtiredOfex Posted July 31 Author Share Posted July 31 I didn't know he was a narc at the time, I assumed he wanted to resolve issues and I kept ignoring him. The it went silent for 2 years I ignored his email and binned it, then 2 months ago he was back in touch I assumed he changed but he's worse and really done a number on me. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 Why not just forget about the label of "narc" and look at how this person treats you and how you feel about that. You feel terrible. Right? I do wonder why you "assumed" he'd changed. Why would he? It's difficult to change and especially if the idea is to change from a complete douchenozzle into somebody worthwhile. That is a tall order. Is there anywhere else to go with this conversation? Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted July 31 Share Posted July 31 6 hours ago, sickandtiredOfex said: then 2 months ago he was back in touch I assumed he changed but he's worse and really done a number on me. Lesson learned. No experience is ever wasted if you learn the lesson. You need to have better boundaries with this man - Link to post Share on other sites
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