whats the meanest thing u did to ur crush, date or SO

[joel]

whats the meanest thing-meaning u dated this person , or maybe haven't dated her before, so what would have been the meanest thing u done to ur crush or to a date.

i guess the guy leaving his wallet in the car-yea classic one. i knew a freind who flirted chatted with girls he wasn't attacted to at all-but was just using em for attention-they would call him-he loved it -attention kind of guy, go out with em but never spend too much-very little -just get em to tag along-to the malls or what not. all and all he was never interested in her -then lets her go lightly.

or dated em for a month and later kiss and this and that and later on out of nowhwere never called or went out with her anymore-or started making her pay.

 

so whats the meanest thing u have ever done to ur crush, date, bf/gf .stories please

[JayKay]

I once broke up with this really nice guy who really liked me (we dated on and off for about 5 months) on Xmas Eve.

 

It was a terrible time to break up with someone, but he'd gotten me this very expensive watch and I'd gotten him a cheap pair of book-ends.

 

When he opened them up, his face just fell. You could tell I hadn't put much thought into them while he'd obviously gone out of his way to get me something nice.

 

It really represented how unequal our relationship was -- I just wanted a 'casual' thing and he wanted a real BF/GF relationship.

 

I told him we obviously didn't feel the same way about the direction things were headed and we should probably split up rather than pretend everything was OK (we were supposed to go to his family's house the next day so I could meet everyone)

 

I tried to give the watch back but he wouldn't take it.

 

He said, "Oh...wow. So now, instead of having a wonderful Xmas Eve with my girlfriend...I'm being broken up with and will have to tell my family about why you're not there at Xmas dinner. This is just great."

 

I felt like SH** !!!

 

I should have done it much earlier.

[Admiral Thrawn]

In a sence, a program, known as "Seduce and Conquer", http://www.seduceandconquer.com actually teaches that it is good to be mean to hot girls to score points with them and to make them laugh.

 

The way to do this is to be cocky, sarcastic, confident and funny.

 

That is to say the opposite of what you mean.

 

For example, if she has beautiful hair and everyone hitting on her is commenting on her beautiful hair, then you may say "What's that dirty mop doing in your bald head, that is the ugliest hairdo I've ever seen in my life!"

 

Or, if she look like a model, you may ask her "When did you come out from the Amazon? I didn't know they had a female Bigfoot creature until I saw you."

 

This is how to get a hot girl, who gets hit on allot and disses people, to like you. Of course, you would not try this on anyone, but if you see she is likely to get hit on by other guys, then use 'reverse psychology humour'.

 

Anybody with comments on this line of thought?

[Lucasarts]

^ yeah that sh*t doesnt work its a program not a real life show following up on how guys get hot girls.

 

when i mean it doesnt work i mean 99% of the time, b/c even all far fetched schemes work (i think it was you who said that?)

 

*going back to the point:

 

the meanest thing...hmm telling a chick who liked me flat out that i thought she was ugly and not my type. i didnt feel much remorse b/c this girl was literally stalking me. but yeah i guess i shouldnt have called her ugly and fat?

 

excuse my french

[JayKay]

"What's that dirty mop doing in your bald head, that is the ugliest hairdo I've ever seen in my life!"

 

 

 

I think someone would have to be a total idiot to find that statement charming in any way, shape or form.

 

You know, I think that's why I stopped dating any men under the age of 30 by the time I was in my mid-20's.

 

Older men know better than to succumb to this type of poor 'advice'.