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seamusharper

A client of mine has a daughter who's taxes I've been doing for years now.

I found her on Instagram and I was thinking of sliding into her DMs (no clue if she's single), I just don't know how to do it. I was just going to introduce myself as the guy who does her taxes (her parents come to my office so I've never seen her) but I don't want to be boring.

Anyone got anything funny or clever or should I just keep it simple?

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My accountant also does my daughters taxes and if he were to contact one of them in private, I'd view this as really weird and ...yes inappropriate. You should aim at meeting someone who you don't know their annual earning and fiscal details. 

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seamusharper
8 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

My accountant also does my daughters taxes and if he were to contact one of them in private, I'd view this as really weird and ...yes inappropriate. You should aim at meeting someone who you don't know their annual earning and fiscal details. 

That's what I figured but I'm never going to see this girl. Her parents only come once a year with the entire family's paperwork so I figured this was the only way to go about this. I'll toss out the idea altogether, thank you for chiming in.

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BaileyB

I would love to tell you to give it a shot, but I would be a little creeped out if someone that I had never met messaged me - especially when he knows my parents and does my taxes. Sorry. 

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ExpatInItaly

Not a good idea at all. 

I am glad you have decided to nix this plan, OP. It's just not appropriate. 

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seamusharper

Thank everyone for chiming in. I won't be contacting said girl. 

Having a hard time meeting women so I thought it was a bit of a Hail Mary but after what you all have described here, it's definitely not a good idea.

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BaileyB

Understandable, it’s hard to meet people. You sound like a nice person - I have no doubt that you will find someone, it just takes time. 

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14 minutes ago, BaileyB said:

Understandable, it’s hard to meet people. You sound like a nice person - I have no doubt that you will find someone, it just takes time. 

Thank you 🙂 It definitely takes a lot of time, much longer than I originally anticipated.

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smackie9

Isn't there any conventions you could attend?

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