basil67 Posted September 16, 2024 Share Posted September 16, 2024 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Teemacey said: 10 minutes ago, basil67 said: What exactly did you see today? From your reaction it sounds like he made a marriage or engagement announcement. Is this the case? I went to his Instagram and seen a new picture of himself he posted. Mind you, I had not been on Instagram for 2 weeks. Idk what it was but I felt uneasy the entire weekend so I did what I knew I shouldn’t have did. Looked him up on IG. I looked at the likes and seen a girl. I clicked her story and seen them out on a date/ kissing. She blurred his face and it said “private but not a secret”. I knew it was him because of his arm tattoo and he was wearing a watch I bought him. I didn’t expect him to move on so fast but ppl heal differently and we went our separate ways so it’s none of my business but it still hurts. The two of you didn't ever have a relationship, so it makes sense that he moved on relatively quickly. But why are you talking about this being a successful relationship due to him being "a good guy"? Sounds like they've barely started and are still getting to know each other. They may be a total mismatch and he could end up dating many more women yet You're really getting way ahead of yourself Edited September 16, 2024 by basil67 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teemacey Posted September 16, 2024 Author Share Posted September 16, 2024 8 minutes ago, basil67 said: The two of you didn't ever have a relationship, so it makes sense that he moved on relatively quickly. But why are you talking about this being a successful relationship due to him being "a good guy"? Sounds like they've barely started and are still getting to know each other. They may be a total mismatch and he could end up dating many more women yet You're really getting way ahead of yourself Oh yes of course. I shouldn’t have looked at his profile. I learned my lesson. And I was doing so good. I know healing isn’t linear but MAN. This is the first time in my healing journey I didn’t “get under someone else” and I’m actually taking the time to heal without jumping into something new. I deactivated my profile and he’s still blocked. Today I just finally let go of the possibility of us being together in the future. I have no choice BUT to move on & that’s what I realized today. Today just made me feel like I’m back at step one and I’m taking away from the progress I did make, not giving myself credit or grace. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 16, 2024 Share Posted September 16, 2024 You can expect to be set back each time you look back at his social media and each time it will be harder to see it and move forward. His SM is your worst enemy right now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Teemacey Posted September 16, 2024 Author Share Posted September 16, 2024 1 minute ago, stillafool said: You can expect to be set back each time you look back at his social media and each time it will be harder to see it and move forward. His SM is your worst enemy right now. Yes!! Blocking him obviously wasn’t enough for me so I went ahead and just deactivated my account. I can’t keep doing this to myself. It gives me a little comfort to know we literally have no way of contacting each other anymore. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 16, 2024 Share Posted September 16, 2024 6 minutes ago, Teemacey said: I went ahead and just deactivated my account. Good, perhaps now you can began healing. Link to post Share on other sites
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