exotic_virgin Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 Why do ex’s call you after their dating has ended with someone else, to update you on it. Link to post Share on other sites
itwontdawnsooner Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 if its "hey are you still around"... forget that! if you didnt establish a friendship, then its just rude and immature. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_virgin Posted January 3, 2006 Author Share Posted January 3, 2006 Not quite sure what u mean? He just called for a chat!! By why do guys call to tell u spicifically that they have broken up? Are they looking for a shoulder to sry on? Or do they do so as they want to let u know that they are single? Or .... Link to post Share on other sites
itwontdawnsooner Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 could be any of those reasons, generalizing why do guys isnt fair, im sure girls do it too, so its why do exs do that, and the reasons are different each time im sure. but usually, its to check up and see what your status is, because theres a connection you two had that he has recently lost with someone else and its almost like grasping at straws (hopefully not more malicious than that). thats the case, usually at least. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_virgin Posted January 4, 2006 Author Share Posted January 4, 2006 great advise thanks... last but not least ... what is grasping at straws ?? Link to post Share on other sites
itwontdawnsooner Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 grasping at straws - taking a long-shot to see if theres any possibility of you two being something, relationship-wise, again. no guarantee of this at all, it could be something else, your actions should be one of distance, usually Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 When things finished with the previous Juliet, she said some hurtful things. I rang a couple of exes to get an honest second opinion. Maybe this is different though, since we were already on speaking terms - I didn't just ring them out of the blue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_virgin Posted January 4, 2006 Author Share Posted January 4, 2006 Hmmm thanks... But I think that is an insult... Link to post Share on other sites
Author exotic_virgin Posted January 4, 2006 Author Share Posted January 4, 2006 Lol well in my case he hardly talked about it... Then again.. He hadly talks about anything... When things finished with the previous Juliet, she said some hurtful things. I rang a couple of exes to get an honest second opinion. Maybe this is different though, since we were already on speaking terms - I didn't just ring them out of the blue. Link to post Share on other sites
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