sumbucccccca Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 hi there yall.. was working abroad this summer on an greek island .. i suppose u cud call it a party island. had a great time, made so many friends etc. the last 2 months of my summer i started seeing a local guy. it was nice, we spent a lot of time together. the only thing is he is really controlling and likes to have things his way. anyway i was kind of expecting things to just cool off when i got home and 2 see what happened if i go back next summer. but a week after i returned home 2 england he came for a reunion thing. so i spent another week with him then. that was nice but just made me realise our differences, we speak almost every day and since then i have been to see him in greece again. the thing is i do miss him.. but at the same time he is soooo moooody... i cant explain it.. im sick of all of his comments on apperance, i know im not ugly and i am usually the most confident person u cud ever meet. however when im with him it changes so much.. i always try and choose clothes to please him etc but it never works, he always finds something wrong... this irritates me so much and i do snap at him occasionaly. i have split up with him THREE times believe it or not,... every time iv said 'i think we shud just leave things and see what happens if i come back in summer'. he always manages too change my mind! the latest time was a week ago.. as soon as i split with him he told me he had just booked tickets to come and see me. i basically argued my case for the next 5 days.. said i was confused etc and didnt think he shud come... but we spoke lastnight and he said he was coming anyway... and i feel like i should see him.. (i know hes expecting me too)... the thing is im worried about what my family, friends will think of him.. i mean because im usually so loud, confident it changes so much when im with him and im constantly worried about rediculess things. i suppose i just want someones opinion on it all.. like is there any point me seeing him when he lives so far away and can make me feel so bad about myself... ??? the only time i really enjoyed myself with him was when i was working on his home island... because i was surrounded by friends aswell!! i do think im going back next summer and would love to be seeing him then.. so i dont wanna piss him off so much that he doesnt wanna be friends!! aaargh help! lol (could i have made this any more confusing?) lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 3, 2006 Share Posted January 3, 2006 humm usually when i cant be myself in a relationship, i tend to find it to be "plastic" love. Its nice and its there, but it just aint real plus i dont like being controlled by my woman, and i dont control my women to do what i like. i wanted to be with them for a reason, and it wasnt because i wanted them to be my "slaves." i would personally not keep seeing this guy, but hey thats just me Link to post Share on other sites
justagirliegirl Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 I think you should cut him loose. If he is this bad now when you are hardly together, imagine being controlled and criticsed daily for years. You want to be with someone who builds you up and loves you as your are not with someone who tears you down. Link to post Share on other sites
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