gassin' it up!

[ses623]

whats up yall? I im in a situation that most of you have probably read a billion times on here...but anyways enough of the b/s im cuttin to the chase. Ok so i got off work today...long day and im tired...cashed my check and went to the gas station to put gas in my truck. I got $10 worth of gas so I went inside to pay. I saw a young gal...im guessin about my age (I'm 18) workin the cash register who really caught my attention for some odd reason other than bein good lookin. As I was walkin to the counter she said hi and i said hi back...but just like gazing into each others eyes like they were locked in that direction until i got to the counter...lol...i payed for my gas and as i was about to walk away she was staring straight into my eyes again...i glanced at her briefly and looked away because i was in a hurry. I got back to my truck and i had a really funny feeling inside about her..ya know what im talkin about right? lol I think striking up a conversation with her would be really akward since shes at work and all that good stuff. I know i wouldnt want nobody bothering me at work while im busy, but my field of work is different. I'm a laborer/apprentice electrician/carpenter. I haven't been on a date in a while since I've been workin so damn much but things are kinda slowin down now that the weather is colder and stuff. What do you guys and gals think would be the best way to strike a conversation with her to kinda "put a little fuel on the fire" so to speak?

Thanks everyone.

later tater.

[Lucasarts]

just talk to her, just as long as there are no customers to hold up

and try to figure out her times at the gas station, so you can constantly meet and talk more until she feels comfortable enough with you. then you can go and ask her for a form of contact, whether that may be instant messenger, email or phone number.

[Admiral Thrawn]

The wisdom of Payton Kane's Seduce and Conquer program:

 

Next time you see her, go up with an enthusiastic tone of voice and say "Hey girl, what's up?", just let yourself out. Pracitse your tone - you must sound enthusiastic. If she asks you how you are, say "Amazing!".

 

Plant the seed. She's yonge, ask her if she is in school, what she plans to study, listen and look interested when she is talking, see if there is anything she is saying to ask more questions about, and just keep her talking. When it looks like it is at a high-point, break off and either go for the number, if you have the guts, or return at another time to continue working her.

 

Before getting her number - remark "You know, it seems like we've got chemistry", she will say "I guess you are right", if she says that, then tell her to write the number down.

[Lucasarts]

ROFL! wtf is that "You know, it seems like we got chemistry!" bs?

 

probably the worst line to say before trying to get a girls number...lol i love that the guy thinks that she'll say "i guess you're right" as if he knows already (if you said that horsesh*t, whatever chemistry there was...aint there anymore)

 

sad that people actually think that picking up girls has to be almost a predictable and recited charade.

 

though i must admit i think the "then tell her to write the number down" is said in a commanding tone. yeah you're not gonna get the girl's real number when you say "write your number down now."

[Admiral Thrawn]

ROFL! wtf is that "You know, it seems like we got chemistry!" bs?

 

probably the worst line to say before trying to get a girls number...lol i love that the guy thinks that she'll say "i guess you're right" as if he knows already (if you said that horsesh*t, whatever chemistry there was...aint there anymore)

 

sad that people actually think that picking up girls has to be almost a predictable and recited charade.

 

though i must admit i think the "then tell her to write the number down" is said in a commanding tone. yeah you're not gonna get the girl's real number when you say "write your number down now."

 

Timing about the chemistry bit is if there is a good connection. She is laughing at your jokes, or is opening herself up to you, then you close by saying, "Hey, it looks like the both of us have chemistry", then she will say "You are right Mr. Macho do me" -- (just kidding0, she will say "We sure do".

 

If she is not into you, or is not going at least half-way, then just dismiss it as a 'socialising experience' and move on, right?

 

In a numbers game, it is better to get wrong numbers than "no's" right, and if she gave him the wrong number, he then goes back later and says, "Hey, I'm sorry I wasn't able to call you because I've been so busy lately", and continue talking. A following time he may say, "YOu know what, I misplaced your number somewhere, I"ve really been busy, could I have it again. Probably lost it with a bunch of other numbers I have".

[Lucasarts]

but in a situation like this, the moment you start initiating conversation with her, a complete stranger that you're attracted to based on something other then looks (but i bet looks are a factor here) like the Original Poster had said, then you're making your intentions clear. She knows that b/c you randomly start a conversation with her that your attracted to her, and its a matter of tryin to see if she is attracted to you and keeping her in that state if she is. Also if you have charm then if she initially was not into you, but after exchanging a few words found you interesting and somewhat entertaining then you have succeeded. Even if you are unable to get a phone number with this girl after a first interaction, it doesnt necessarily mean she is rejecting you. Its understandable b/c you are a complete stranger. it is not in the best interest of both parties to be hearing or saying "i think we got chemistry" as it is pointing to a sign of the obvious (if there is) or creating a whole lot of awkwardness (with or without chemistry, if you're seriously stupid enough to say such a thing, you deserve to get shot).