kizzle trizzle Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 i know that i need to break up with her. all that she does it lie to me, and never admits anything. she cheats on me and makes me feel like the bad guy for ever talking about it but i dont know how to do it. i love her so much still but i know that all this stuff will keep going on. i think that the best thing i can possibly do is end it. in the long run im sure ill be happier. but i have no idea how to go about it. i never thought i would ever need to break up with someone that i love so much. what does anyone else do if they have no choice? and what do they do to move on? and how can u get the courage to actually do it? Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Clearly you love the wrong person. Try to imagine what it would be to love the right person. The more you allow her to disrespect you the more you disrespect yourself. Do you really believe on this entire planet she is the only woman you could possibly love? She has a broken moral compass and will break you if you stay with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Honey all I can say is don't waste your time! You clearly both want different things, and if her's is to slut around with other guys than obviously this girl is not for you. By the sounds of it, you have alot of love to give someone and just because this particular person is unworthy of you, does not mean that you won't find someone who will return your feelings they way you deserve. Give this girl the flick, give yourself time to heal and then make a new life with someone who would never dream about doing this sort of thing to you because they love and respect you. Good Luck darlin. Link to post Share on other sites
BUTAFLY Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 tell her you deserve better...tell her you setting her free to do what she wants to do....when she is ready for a serious relationship with you she should look you up but just know that you may or may not available. Tell her just like that ...very matter of fact..straight faced...and don't you back down. she already knows she has you wrapped around her finger and she has zero respect for you as is, so she continues to hurt you. if you stand up for yourself she may realize what she is giving up. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 heres what you say: "I'm breaking up with you, i need my space and time. It's obvious that our love is not strong enough to overcome the problems in this relationship and it would be better for the both of us to part ways." thats the nice way heres the a**hole way: "We're through. I'm sick of your lies, your attitude, and your cheating. I dont know what i ever saw in you in the first place, but i clearly know that its not there anymore, if it ever existed in the first place." that clean and simple man Link to post Share on other sites
sparticuss Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 All of the suggestions all too true. Now try actually doing it when your'e hopelessly in love with her no matter how little love she has for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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