prettivee Posted September 16 Share Posted September 16 My significant other and I have been together for 7 years (not married). We lived together until a few months ago when they moved to another state to start attend an accelerated school. We now live in separate states and I haven't physically seen him in 1 month. We talk but I haven't seen him. They made the drive back to our home state (where I live) yesterday to run some errands. They don't know that I know they're here and has not reached out to me to tell me nor did they come to the house that we share last night. Why would they hide this from me and why would they go stay with a friend last night instead of coming home? Link to post Share on other sites
Author prettivee Posted September 16 Author Share Posted September 16 My significant other and I have been together for 7 years (not married). We lived together until a few months ago when they moved to another state to start attend an accelerated school. We now live in separate states and I haven't physically seen him in 1 month. We talk but I haven't seen him. They made the drive back to our home state (where I live) yesterday to run some errands. They don't know that I know they're here and has not reached out to me to tell me nor did they come to the house that we share last night. Why would they hide this from me and why would they go stay with a friend last night instead of coming home? Link to post Share on other sites
Lotsgoingon Posted September 16 Share Posted September 16 They would avoid you and not call you because clearly, they don't feel committed to a relationship with you. Dump this person and move on. The relationship is over. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Leihla_B Posted September 16 Share Posted September 16 It doesn't sound good. It seems as though your partner is using the schooling opportunity to break from you permanently. How long is his program, and what was your agreement regarding his return? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 16 Share Posted September 16 6 hours ago, prettivee said: Why would they hide this from me and why would they go stay with a friend last night instead of coming home? Because he is trying to avoid you and doesn't want you to know he's in town. Maybe he's seeing someone else in that town besides you. If he's your boyfriend he wouldn't be able to wait to see you. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 16 Share Posted September 16 It's because they've moved on and so should you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 16 Share Posted September 16 Sounds like you're broken up and you're the only one that didn't get the memo. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 17 Share Posted September 17 His decision tells you what his priorities are… Link to post Share on other sites
jasonblackheart01 Posted September 18 Share Posted September 18 Before feeling like sherlock holmes, make sure there are evidence of the crime. Link to post Share on other sites
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