prettivee Posted September 16, 2024 Posted September 16, 2024 My significant other and I have been together for 7 years (not married). We lived together until a few months ago when they moved to another state to start attend an accelerated school. We now live in separate states and I haven't physically seen him in 1 month. We talk but I haven't seen him. They made the drive back to our home state (where I live) yesterday to run some errands. They don't know that I know they're here and has not reached out to me to tell me nor did they come to the house that we share last night. Why would they hide this from me and why would they go stay with a friend last night instead of coming home?
Author prettivee Posted September 16, 2024 Author Posted September 16, 2024 My significant other and I have been together for 7 years (not married). We lived together until a few months ago when they moved to another state to start attend an accelerated school. We now live in separate states and I haven't physically seen him in 1 month. We talk but I haven't seen him. They made the drive back to our home state (where I live) yesterday to run some errands. They don't know that I know they're here and has not reached out to me to tell me nor did they come to the house that we share last night. Why would they hide this from me and why would they go stay with a friend last night instead of coming home?
Lotsgoingon Posted September 16, 2024 Posted September 16, 2024 They would avoid you and not call you because clearly, they don't feel committed to a relationship with you. Dump this person and move on. The relationship is over. 2
Leihla_B Posted September 16, 2024 Posted September 16, 2024 It doesn't sound good. It seems as though your partner is using the schooling opportunity to break from you permanently. How long is his program, and what was your agreement regarding his return?
stillafool Posted September 16, 2024 Posted September 16, 2024 6 hours ago, prettivee said: Why would they hide this from me and why would they go stay with a friend last night instead of coming home? Because he is trying to avoid you and doesn't want you to know he's in town. Maybe he's seeing someone else in that town besides you. If he's your boyfriend he wouldn't be able to wait to see you.
stillafool Posted September 16, 2024 Posted September 16, 2024 It's because they've moved on and so should you. 1
Gaeta Posted September 16, 2024 Posted September 16, 2024 Sounds like you're broken up and you're the only one that didn't get the memo. 2
BaileyB Posted September 17, 2024 Posted September 17, 2024 His decision tells you what his priorities are…
jasonblackheart01 Posted September 18, 2024 Posted September 18, 2024 Before feeling like sherlock holmes, make sure there are evidence of the crime.
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