BrknHrt Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Well, I'm an idiot. I actually believed my ex wanted to work things out but now he's back to talking to the girl he was dating while we were broken up. He says he's not "going back to her" and that he doesn't "want to date anybody right now" but I know how this girl is and how he is. She'll be calling him her boyfriend and starting the "i love you" **** again and he just goes along because he's the laid-back, doesn't like conflict type. I just don't understand how someone can keep hurting you over and over and not even care. I'm such an idiot too because if he called me right now I would jump in the car and be on my way to him. I just wish I could die. I can't live through this a second time. Link to post Share on other sites
riobikini Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Brknhrt: Go to this link ASAP, -and don't leave it til you've read EVERY post in the link by a subscriber here on LS called 'NoFoolin'. Now. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=56954 -Rio Link to post Share on other sites
In Sync Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Can you see now why NC is so vital...if you don't like this feeling of being hurt again and again, stick to NC. No Contact means No New Hurt. It's simple. We all have been there. Read that link riobikini provided for you, it's truly a guide. Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted January 4, 2006 Share Posted January 4, 2006 Very few of us make a sucess of 'going backwards' in our relationships. You are still hurting, I've been there. Unlike you, it took 6, 7, 8 times of hurting myself to the bone to work out that I could stop it by just walking away and forgetting him. Do the same, now, before you cause yourself any further pain and misery. Link to post Share on other sites
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