Bananaann Posted September 23, 2024 Share Posted September 23, 2024 Looking for some guidance/advise. I’m a 21 yr old w a 2 yr old and me and my bf just went down to one car so I’m back to being mostly stay at home and trapped in the house. Now, he has been flirting with his ex coworker who I questioned about before and had saved photos of her posing with super revealing clothes on. Not nudes but there’s definitely no reason for her to be sending pics w her tits out posing to somebody else’s bf/bd. Anyways i went through his phone that all I could find of them but he also has pictures of other girls he find off the internet in his phone witch we’ve also talked about and I’ve told him numerous times now it makes me uncomfortable. As I’ve said he’s done this before and we talked about it. Said he was going to stop and everything. Last time it happened he was looking at his ex on camera roll, Snapchat, and her Facebook and there was old nudes of her saved to his phone he was looking at. I feel hurt and disrespected by him but we also just signed a new lease in November, we only have 1 car, and I work 1 shift a week right now. I just feel like he doesn’t listen or respect me at all. when I say he doesn’t listen it’s also about other things like not taking my parenting concerns seriously or not taking anything I say about our financials into account bc he is the breadwinner. So we’re having other problems too and I’m debating leaving but with our home and car situation right now it will be extremely hard. Help Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 23, 2024 Share Posted September 23, 2024 I am sorry you find yourself in this situation. Do you have family close to you? Does your child have a spot in daycare? would it be possible for you to take more hours at work? Does your government offer free legal help for women in your situation? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted September 29, 2024 Share Posted September 29, 2024 My impression of all this is him using the photos as a means of escape from his life with you...being young with the responsibility of a child/toddler is not fun/not easy, it's hard work and he's avoiding it. Working and life at home with fiances tight...that's tough. You are upset, he's upset. It's stressful! Is this his child? or from another relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
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