BaileyB Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 (edited) 20 minutes ago, Gaeta said: This man has no integrity and no moral, no respect for himself or women. Add to that, the fact that you are even entertaining this married man demonstrates that you need to shore up your self respect. Most women would recognize this man for what he is and tell him tell to take a hike!! The fact that you are posting wanting to know if he loves you and why he married another woman if he does in fact have feelings for you says a lot… As I said above, people who trust blindly and unwisely tend to get very, very hurt. Edited September 26 by BaileyB 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 Yes, it will forget about him. It's not going to be that easy seeing his face every day, but I'll keep my distance, KARMA will hit him so badly. I thought of seeking revenge, but I think it's useless now. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 3 minutes ago, Angevil said: Yes, it will forget about him. It's not going to be that easy seeing his face every day, but I'll keep my distance, KARMA will hit him so badly. I thought of seeking revenge, but I think it's useless now. YOU, should not talk about karma, because karma has a reason to hit on you as well. You have been equally disrespectful of your own boyfriend, and you keep on being disloyal to him each day until you breakup with him to set him free. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 okay as i said im not wrong at all, it was once in a time and i realised that he is playing so i forgive myself because i was dumb yeah ! Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 7 minutes ago, Angevil said: okay as i said im not wrong at all, it was once in a time and i realised that he is playing so i forgive myself because i was dumb yeah ! This is not just about the kiss. You went and met this guy afterward, you are harboring strong feelings for him 'right now'. Every day is a lie to your boyfriend, do you understand that part? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 Yes, I do understand. I won't lie; I don't have strong feelings for him, except the one that I experienced while kissing him. After it was just my mind blaming myself for why I did that, and did he even think about that or call me and say it was a mistake and sorry for that? That's why I'm confused, nothing more. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 7 minutes ago, Angevil said: did he even think about that or call me and say it was a mistake and sorry for that? That's why I'm confused, nothing more. You need to quit worrying about him and start focusing more on yourself. Despite the fact that you have apparently walked away from this flirtation, you have weak boundaries and you have disrespected your boyfriend. I wouldn’t minimize this - I do hope you learn from this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 2 hours ago, Angevil said: okay as i said im not wrong at all, it was once in a time and i realised that he is playing so i forgive myself because i was dumb yeah ! If this is how you feel, please break up with your boyfriend. Set him free so that he is able to find and be with a woman who doesn’t kiss and have crushes on other men, or at the very least doesn’t “forgive herself” afterwards but humbly waits and hopes for his forgiveness. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 i wanna know when u harm ppl's feelings what do u gain in return. chill im here to listen to someone who really has experciences and can help me not to make me feel bad about myself and to make me hate myself while i spent so many years to built myself from trash Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 18 minutes ago, Angevil said: i wanna know when u harm ppl's feelings what do u gain in return. chill im here to listen to someone who really has experciences and can help me not to make me feel bad about myself and to make me hate myself while i spent so many years to built myself from trash It doesn't matter what he gains out of it. Still you are too much interested in him than in yourself. People hurt others for all types of selfish reasons. The best way to feel better about yourself is to 'respect' yourself. This will never ever fail you. You also need to be accountable for the part you played in this. Telling yourself you didn't cheat, not your fault you were drunk, supervisor initiated it all....no no no no. You try to come out of this as the victim, you're not. Accepting you Fkd up, acknowledging your part in this scenario, humbling yourself, is how you will grow out of this. What you're feeling will go away but you have to learn from it, otherwise you've hurt yourself and others for nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
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