Author Angevil Posted September 24 Author Share Posted September 24 Probably yes, the problem i can't accept that Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 1 hour ago, Angevil said: he said it's all here and he pointed his finger on his heart' hahaha that was unexpected Why, that was completely expected. Sleazy, shameless cheaters and manipulators always talk like that to use young, naive, gullible, inexperienced, silly girls for their pleasure and then cast them away like broken toys when they’re done with them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 25 Author Share Posted September 25 Sorry but i wasn't prepared mentally to hear this.... Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 On 9/24/2024 at 9:12 AM, Angevil said: i undrestand ur pov but i don't know why would him do that while he is married recently less than 2 weeks For exactly the same reason as you're all hot for this guy and not prioritising your boyfriend: pure selfishness 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 45 minutes ago, Angevil said: Sorry but i wasn't prepared mentally to hear this.... Yet you were mentally prepared to cheat on your boyfriend with a man who just got married? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 25 Author Share Posted September 25 We kissed and i was drank I'll never do it when im sober, i don't consider that as cheating he started to kiss me first and i was weak Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 2 minutes ago, Angevil said: We kissed and i was drank I'll never do it when im sober, i don't consider that as cheating he started to kiss me first and i was weak If you don’t consider this cheating, then I agree with @Gaeta, please break up with your boyfriend. He should have a chance to find a girl who doesn’t cheat on him, or at least a girl who is honest enough to admit it and willing to make amends. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Angevil said: We kissed and i was drank I'll never do it when im sober, i don't consider that as cheating he started to kiss me first and i was weak So if someone persuades you to drive a car when you're drunk and you kill someone, you expect to get a 'not guilty' verdict? Edited September 25 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 25 Author Share Posted September 25 (edited) No ofc, im not blaming alcohol... just im lost i took days off from my work (so i can make up my mind). It may seem very easy to you but to me it's not, last night i saw my boyfriend and i didn't want to look at him in the eyes Edited September 25 by Angevil Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 53 minutes ago, Angevil said: No ofc, im not blaming alcohol... just im lost i took days off from my work (so i can make up my mind). It may seem very easy to you but to me it's not, last night i saw my boyfriend and i didn't want to look at him in the eyes I was responding to the post where you blamed alcohol It's good that you can't look your boyfriend in the eyes...it will help you make the right decision 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 25 Author Share Posted September 25 Yes i understand as i said before im confused but staying away from him is making me feel bad, but i feel desperate like i can't do s***, i want to say that he used me but this makes me sad and i wanna do smthg Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 2 hours ago, Angevil said: Yes i understand as i said before im confused but staying away from him is making me feel bad, but i feel desperate like i can't do s***, i want to say that he used me but this makes me sad and i wanna do smthg Angevil do you have family? a good friend? someone you can call? It's not normal to be distressed to the point of not going to work. People go through divorces without missing work, this guy is a nobody in your life and here you are destroyed as if this was a long term partner. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 25 Author Share Posted September 25 I took 4 days off ´ yes i do have a family but our relationship not that that close and i leave with a friend and she is a good friend but she not the type that can undress what im going through no one can feel that. I'm stressed cause we lived a really good feeling that night and then he is just okay with that, he is now between his wife's arms. i can't get over it simply Link to post Share on other sites
asfandali Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 On 9/24/2024 at 3:45 AM, Angevil said: hi, im new here i just want to share with you guys a short story, so im dating someone and now it's been 1 year we are dating i really love him he is kind gentle he is a coach actually, i met him first at the gym after that we hung out a lot after that, so the main issue is before knowing him i had a crush on my supervisor, he told me that he like me too cause we went out and we talked a lot, we had a lot of memories, we kissed. Recently he got married and he invited me and i didn't go, After his marriage we met and we talked he told me that he misses me and my place was always on his heart, but i have a bf and he is married this is wrong i told myself but i was drunk we kissed after that talk and i felt really heaven hugging him and kissing him, now im feeling disparate, im feeling sorry for her and for myself cause my bf is such an angel and i love him, the other man i feel deep connection with him its really hard Stop lying to yourself, it doesn't matter if he is your supervisor. Then what ? You should go for that person who is honest with you. Not for that person that is just playing for pleasure, and you are presenting yourself as a toy. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 25 Share Posted September 25 5 hours ago, Angevil said: she is a good friend but she not the type that can undress what im going through no one can feel that. You won't know that until you tell her about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 Yea i told her, and she attacked me with words like i felt so bad Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 2 hours ago, Angevil said: Yea i told her, and she attacked me with words like i felt so bad And you should feel bad. If a friend of mine came to me with this story I would start by giving them some deserved tough love! then I'd go in solution/support mode. So, what's the solution for your problem Angevil? Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 All decisions have consequences. This married man is trying to sell you a load of manure… if you decide to buy what he is selling, you will deal with the consequence of that decision. It really is as simple as that. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 On 9/24/2024 at 6:15 PM, Angevil said: Probably yes, the problem i can't accept that Some lessons need to be learned the hard way… 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 (edited) Since that night he didn't reach out; he confessed his love for me; he is not playing with my feelings, and he disappeared. Edited September 26 by Angevil Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 2 minutes ago, Angevil said: he is not playing with my feelings Explain your logic behind this. He expressed his love and disappeared. If it's not playing with your feelings what is it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Angevil Posted September 26 Author Share Posted September 26 (edited) no i asked him and that was his answer, im not playing with ur feelings i really dont know what the f he is doing to me , why ??? i've been questioning myself a lot Edited September 26 by Angevil Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 (edited) 14 minutes ago, Angevil said: Since that night he didn't reach out; he confessed his love for me; he is not playing with my feelings, and he disappeared. He’s playing with your feelings. A married man who tells a woman that is not his wife that he is in love with her - and then disappears from contact is absolutely playing with your feelings. You need to remove the word “love” from your vocabulary here. If he “loved” his wife, he wouldn’t be fooling around with you… and if he “loved” you, he wouldn’t have married another woman. Edited September 26 by BaileyB 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 (edited) 31 minutes ago, Angevil said: im not playing with ur feelings i really dont know what the f he is doing to me , why ??? i've been questioning myself a lot His words say he's not playing with you but his actions are saying he's playing with you. He does this because he's flattered by having a woman hang to his every word just for the heck of it. He is a very selfish person, he has no consideration what so ever for other people's feelings, including yours and his wife. He's like a parasite feeding off the suffering of women. This man has no integrity and no moral, no respect for himself or women. Edited September 26 by Gaeta Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted September 26 Share Posted September 26 (edited) 48 minutes ago, Angevil said: Since that night he didn't reach out; he confessed his love for me; he is not playing with my feelings, and he disappeared. Ok, so let’s assume, for the sake of argument, that he isn’t playing with your feelings. He has regretted his immoral actions, decided to leave you alone and be faithful to his wife. In which case, you must forget about him and focus on either mending your relationship with your BF or leaving him, since you have realized now that you don’t love him that much. Edited September 26 by Gebidozo Link to post Share on other sites
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