Luke Posted August 3, 2001 Share Posted August 3, 2001 I belive sex is a critical element to a perfect love relationship. I love my gf but she has flat chest. I've never told her that I was a bit disappointed cause I don't want to hurt her, she is so meekly, but the fact is that I'm not satisfied in sex because of that, What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 3, 2001 Share Posted August 3, 2001 Some people would call you so superficial but I don't think so. I don't think we can help those certain requirements that seem to be built up in our heads. It's odd that you can't be satisfied with sex because of your girlfriend's breast size. However, that may be a visual cue you require for stimulation. There are only two alternatives you have here. One is to have your girlfriend get breast augmentation...the other is to break up with her. There is no way you can do either without hurting her to some extent. She may not be willing to undergo an operation for you. So there is really no way you can pull this off without creating some emotional chaos. Be sure you make no comments to your girl about her breast size if you don't have to. Many women who have flat chests are very sensitive about it. I have seen women's personalities totally change for the better after breast augmentation. Others who have little down there have a very healthy self esteem and care little about what other people think. Your girl may or may not be sensitive about this...but my bet is that if she knew your feelings, she would be devastated. You've really got a problem here and there's just no easy solution. You know your lady better than anybody. If the two of you are very close and you love her, maybe there's some way you can very slowly get across to her the idea of a bood job. On the other hand, you may have a psychological hang up with fake boobs. Isn't life wonderful? Link to post Share on other sites
Ed Posted August 3, 2001 Share Posted August 3, 2001 Our sexual desires are highly influenced by a number of factors. The primary factors are the media we are exposed to along with the society we flounder in. Your feelings about women's breasts are a result of this exposure and how you have processed it into your ideal woman. I hope your exposure to this message board will broaden your horizons a little and help you understand yourself a little better. Consider the future for a moment. All woman's breasts will eventually succumb to Newton's Law of Gravity. Are you turned off by breasts that sag? Some women will have to deal with breast cancer, with the possibility of having part or all of their breast(s) removed. What would you do if that happened to your girlfriend or wife? Don't make a hasty judgment. Think twice before excluding an otherwise good partner because of a physical trait like this. Plastic surgery and cosmetic surgery are always a possibility, but they are expensive. Who's going to pay the bill to keep you in good breasts, now and in the future? Link to post Share on other sites
Luke Posted August 4, 2001 Share Posted August 4, 2001 Thank you so much for your thoughtful on my situation! Here my friend's situation is: My friend's gf,aged 30+ , left him for a guy who earns 70% of his salary. He never imagined that this could happen to him. Everyone knows that in HK, money is everything. Money means dignity, power and status. He can't figure out the real reason for his apparent defeat, him being better harbour for his gf in every sense of the world. He has warned his gf that since she went for a guy of her age (he's older than her), she must be prepared to be dumped ( very probably,as men lust for younger bodies) in the near future. When his gf became an old hag, his gf has no assets left for her to find a proper husband any longer. Yet his gf was very determined and confident (for what? his gf is going downhill anyway) What should he work harder and earn more, get young model gf, to take his revenge on her? any tips Any suggests,please!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 4, 2001 Share Posted August 4, 2001 I don't completely understand your post...but I also don't completely understand why people behave the way they do. Link to post Share on other sites
Beep Posted August 4, 2001 Share Posted August 4, 2001 Luke, All I have to say is that you never know what you have til it's gone!!! If you lose her over this minor issue, you will regret it in the future. What if she thought that you were "too small" for her? Think about it. I belive sex is a critical element to a perfect love relationship. I love my gf but she has flat chest. I've never told her that I was a bit disappointed cause I don't want to hurt her, she is so meekly, but the fact is that I'm not satisfied in sex because of that, What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
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