GuitarGuy7 Posted September 29 Share Posted September 29 So a month ago, I met a girl at a group event for pickleball and I asked for her number and she gave me it. Later that day, I texted her and asked if she wanted to meetup and she said yes. We met up at a mall where we ate food, walked around, and played arcade games at the mall. I offered to pay but she didn't want to. While we were talking, she seemed enthusiastic about the arcade games and really enjoyed playing them. We met for a total of 3 hours and afterwards, I asked if she wanted to meet up again, and she responded with "Let's meet up at the group pickleball event again". The day of pickleball comes and I am unable to make it because of an event going on so I text her that I am unable to make it but would love to meet up with her again. She tells me that she is booked for next weekend but would agree to meet up 2 weeks from now. We agreed on playing minigolf. About a few days before meeting up, I sent a video of me playing the piano to her. She said she really liked it and said it was better than the Mariah Carey Christmas song and she's looking forward to playing mini golf. She doesn’t take too long to respond. Today was the day that we met up to play minigolf. She payed for her way and I paid for mine. We played for a total of 3 hours and during that time, she was laughing a lot, joking a lot, and teased me a little bit and I did a little bit as well. I could tell she was having a lot of fun and enjoying it. When I wanted to get a water at the vending machine but was unable to, she walked up to the cashier and said "my friend here needs a water". Afterwards, we walked around in the arcade and she said that she really likes it and suggested that we meet up again to play arcade games. We got into the parking lot, said goodbye, and she walked to her car immediately afterwards. We did not kiss since she walked to her car immediately. She later texted me first saying how she accidentally hit a sign and how she thought that was funny. I then asked her if she wanted to meet up again. This is a paraphrase of what she sent to me. "Hey Guitarguy7 I had a lot of fun today! My sister is in labor for the next few weeks and I should help her out. Also, I have other things going on. So I won't be able to meet until November and will get back to you once things are sorted out." This means she won’t be able to meet me for at least a month. So based on all of this, do you think she is possibly romantically interested in me? Link to post Share on other sites
spiritedaway2003 Posted September 29 Share Posted September 29 I'm sorry. This isn't the answer you're hoping for, but i think the answer is no. Usually for sporting events like this, most people would prefer to meet some new people but stick to the event (pickleball). It sounds like she was being friendly and maybe wanted to get to know you as a person.. If she was interested in more, she'll make it happen. FWIW, no matter how busy or crazy it gets, my partner and I always make time for each other. When you love someone (or if you are very interested in someone), you'll do what you can to make things happen. Seems like she's just being friendly/polite. I would leave it until or if she reaches out again. Link to post Share on other sites
riversidemf Posted September 29 Share Posted September 29 Does she live far? Link to post Share on other sites
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