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Hanniesmom

I have been divorced for 6 years. I now have an empty nest. I find myself going to work and coming home. That’s all. I’m also stopping at a local establishment a couple times a week before coming home. I know that’s not a good idea to do, and my daughters hate it. I just don’t feel connected to anything. I like to read, but reading clubs are like once a month. Anyone else in this situation??

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Leihla_B

The reading club would be a place to start. But you have the whole Internet at your fingertips to explore potential interests and learn about classes, clubs, volunteer opportunities and other ways to meet people over shared interests.

Also, why do your daughters hate it that you go to an establishment? What kind of place is it?

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I'm stuck in a rust and can't seem to find any traction. Im 38 and haven't really dated. My job keeps me pretty busy and I'm a introvert do stepping out of my comfort zone is extremely difficult. Now I went from worried to scared because the last 10 years seemed to fly by and go up in smoke.  I'm looking around and it seems the world that left me behind while I was in la la land. I'm a good looking guy but I am severely inexperienced. I feel like half my life has gone and I have no one. It's extremely depressing and it's been an eye opener toward the things that matter. I just feel like if I want to start a family I'm dangerously close to not having that as a option. 

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