Shayle Posted October 6 Share Posted October 6 I have been with my bf going on 5 years. We had our rough patches. He constantly lied and cheated on me a few times. He says he loves me and needs help because he doesn’t want to loose me. I know some of you might judge me for my action but I reached out to a spell caster a member had recommended previously. After consultation I decided to do the love spell and everything has been going well ever since . Last night, he propose to me and I said yes 🙂 He’s like a completely changed man and adores me in a good way. His mom doesn’t seem to like me. I have tried bonding with her but it doesn’t seem like she cares . Should I reach out to the spell caster for some help or just roll with it? I have been lost in thought all evening. My now fiancé is super sweet and doesn’t like me out of his sight. I love this man and he never went back to cheating . He would rather spend all his free time with me. Before you judge me for my action, Some of us need the extra help to be happy. I don’t regret seeking a spiritual help. Any thoughts and suggestions would be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted October 6 Share Posted October 6 I suppose a spell is as good of remedy as any, I dont think he will remain under it for very long but ultimately if you love him you may just have to accept he will play around a little from time to time. be a very understanding wife. Link to post Share on other sites
Just Jason Posted October 6 Share Posted October 6 (edited) Just out of curiosity, what made you stay after he cheated? Edited October 6 by Just Jason 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 6 Share Posted October 6 (edited) After a boyfriend is caught cheating and he convinced you of staying in the relationship he will go through a phase called the honeymoon phase. That's what you're experiencing right now. It has nothing to do with a spell. Your boyfriend will cheat again, he'll just be better at hiding it. Edited October 6 by Gaeta 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Leihla_B Posted October 6 Share Posted October 6 Whenever someone abuses or cheats, there is a cycle if you forgive them and stick around. They'll be nice for a little while. Then it's back to being sneaky, only they'll get better at hiding it. Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted October 6 Share Posted October 6 I hate to disappoint you, but what’s happening is not the result of the spell. Your boyfriend is overjoyed that you forgave his horrible behavior so easily and without any repercussions. He is going to be really nice to you now. Then he will probably cheat again. Saying “yes” to his marriage proposal was a terrible mistake that will cause you a lot of pain and deep regret in the future. At the very least, please take that “yes” back. You and your BF are very, very far from being ready to get married. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
riversidemf Posted October 10 Share Posted October 10 I hope he gave you a big rock! Congratulations. Link to post Share on other sites
riversidemf Posted October 10 Share Posted October 10 On 10/6/2024 at 1:14 PM, Gebidozo said: I hate to disappoint you, but what’s happening is not the result of the spell. Your boyfriend is overjoyed that you forgave his horrible behavior so easily and without any repercussions. He is going to be really nice to you now. Then he will probably cheat again. Saying “yes” to his marriage proposal was a terrible mistake that will cause you a lot of pain and deep regret in the future. At the very least, please take that “yes” back. You and your BF are very, very far from being ready to get married. People can change. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 10 Share Posted October 10 13 minutes ago, riversidemf said: People can change. In short 'no'. People change when they go in therapy and commit to changing. People don't change in 1 week. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted October 11 Share Posted October 11 5 hours ago, riversidemf said: People can change. Not as fast as that. Change takes a lot of time and effort. You can’t magically turn a cheater into a good guy like this. I used to be a cheater just like that guy, and it took me years to truly change. Years after I had realized that cheating was wrong and decided to become a better person. Cheaters need to address and deal with their own issues, solve their deep mental, spiritual, sexual problems that are causing them to cheat. This can’t happen overnight. Marrying this guy now would be a huge mistake for the OP. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shayle Posted October 14 Author Share Posted October 14 Thank you.. I have reconsidered my decision. I will give it more time and see how it plays out Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted October 14 Share Posted October 14 Maybe you should see if there's a spell to help you get over wanting to be with a man who treats you poorly. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted October 14 Share Posted October 14 On 10/6/2024 at 8:11 PM, Shayle said: Should I reach out to the spell caster for some help or just roll with it? I can do better than the spellcaster. Send me $200 and I will ensure that any man you choose will fall in love with you and treat you as a princess Link to post Share on other sites
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