How do i deal with that fact that he cheated?

[lisa0025]

I'm dating this guy but he ha cheated on me twice. But when I found out, something changed inside of him. He doesn't go out with his friends anymore, he doesn't drink anymore, he spends all his extra time with he. He has completely changed. But it still bothers me about what he did. I can't get over it. I really do love him. I always have, but I just don't know if the relationship is worth keeping because I keep getting upset all the time. What should I do?

[MissD213]

the same thing happened to me and i've been wondering the same thing. they completly changed for you but you cant get it outta your head. well i found out about a year ago and i just think back to how i felt then to how i felt now. sure i randomlly still think about it and cry every once and a while just because i loved him and he betrayed me. whenever i tell him that i still think about it he usually gets angry and tells me i need to forget about it because it will never happen again. he stopped getting completly trashed and spends more time with me too. it sucks but i guess the only thing to cure it is time and makin more memories together..

[SueBee3490]

Has it been recently that you found out he cheated?

 

How long had you been dating when he cheated? Was this cheating one-nighters, long term relationships?

 

Just wondering because what little you've written sounds alot like my situation.

[lilmoma1973]

 

My h cheated on me once and it is still hard for me to believe what he says and does.. I guess you never really get that trust back fully after being cheated on by someone!! I let my h get so far ,and then i keep that wall ,so he don't get too close ,because i think if he does ,i will get hurt!! I can't tell you what to do ,cause you never know ,till you are in that situation!! I know one thing for sure ,if my man done it again ,he would be gone !! That is just me though, can't tell you what to do that has to be your decision alone !!