Sinfuldelight Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 I seem to have a really hard time making friends and keeping them. I do have some friends that I have managed to keep in touch with for 8 + years, however they no longer live close and it makes me feel depressed when my younger sister goes out every night with her friends. I'm 24, yet I have a seriously hard time making friends. Ever since I've moved back to my hometown - Orlando... it's just been horrible. I met this girl named Anne at Bally's Total Fitness and I thought, Wow! I finally met someone cool!! We talked a lot and hung out after workouts and then .. I finally stopped and looked at our friendship. She would always ask me what Chaz was up to, what he was thinking, who he was with. I felt really hurt, and the last night I hung with her... was the end. Plus, I felt she was being disrespectful to me by having sex with one of the guys who worked at another fitness place WHILE I was in the room. A little later.. I met another girl, who I was friends with for maybe a couple of months. She was cool, you know? Into the games like Final Fantasy, Everquest...etc... well... we start working out and then, her husband starts going to the gym....phone calls slow....invites to the gym slow... If I call to see if shes going she'd say she had done went with her husband... and then communication stopped. Ouch, I feel like I was used to get her husband to do crap with her, which still makes me feel incredibly hurt. Now, I'm not a horribly exciting person. I live a normal, boring life. I work hard and play games ... I just don't understand why people will not get to know me well enough to keep me as a friend? I'd bend over backwards for my friends... I always have... I guess thats why i still have a few. I don't know why I just cant seem to make good friends with people anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
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