jamesbd Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 I have a friend who keeps close at a distance, because she knows if we go anywhere together or anything I'll have a hidden agenda. She is very concious about herself, almost no photos of herself, constant worrying about her weight. She seems to be oppositional defiant (caring more about winning the arguement than being right), never says sorry and always waits for other people to start talking to her. My questions is, How should I come across to her if I wanted to be attracted to me? Link to post Share on other sites
seanryann Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 I think you should get her comfortable talking to you. Ask her about herself, get her talking about her interests, etc. Make her feel confident when she's talking with you. That seems to be her problem - confidence. Flatter her (but not too much to start), and make her feel special. Does she have a reason to think you have a hidden agenda? Link to post Share on other sites
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