flutterfly08 Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 Short story, and i desperately need oppinions... Me and my ex went out for about 6 weeks not to long, i know....during which i got to know his best friend. he always gave me "tips" on what to do and what not to do.... Ok about 2 months ago we split up, i still had contact with the best friend, so we smsed and so on, i went over to the best friends house the other night and he told me that my ex said that he wished that i met the friend before i met my ex. what ever that might've meant. I love chatting to the best friend, and we have awesome times together, and i think im starting to develope romantic feelings for him, but he is still my ex's best friend, and dating "the best friend" is just not something anyone should do. I dont want to mess things up between the 2 of them, but i really like this guy... Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 dating "the best friend" is just not something anyone should do. For me, this is not an absolute rule, just general good practice. In your case, the relationship only lasted 6 weeks, so if everyone is moderately cool with it, why not? Link to post Share on other sites
snow queen Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 he's right .....I know six weeks sometimes feels like forever but really if you think about it, hardly anytime at all..... It doesn't sound like your previous relationship was that serious either .... as the other one is over there aren't any problems there........and its between friends to sort it out, if they're ok with it you neednt worry ( boys are generally less concerned about dating their friends than girls are!!). Dating 'the best friend' is only a nono if you make a habit of it Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 Why not simply ask your ex how he feels about it and if he has any problems with it? Link to post Share on other sites
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