basil67 Posted 2 hours ago Share Posted 2 hours ago 3 minutes ago, 2bittz said: I'm just wondering whether their kissing is actual attraction that could potentially lead to no strings sex, or if it's any real attraction at all. I'd rather it at least lead to sex than nothing. Wait....you're feeling sad and rejected because kisses don't necessarily lead to casual sex? Dude, what is wrong with you? I thought you were sad because kissing didn't translate to getting a relationship Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2bittz Posted 2 hours ago Author Share Posted 2 hours ago (edited) 5 minutes ago, basil67 said: Wait....you're feeling sad and rejected because kisses don't necessarily lead to casual sex? Dude, what is wrong with you? I thought you were sad because kissing didn't translate to getting a relationship yes, that was the main focus of my post technically I think I ultimately want an actual connection perhaps. not sure 100% but i'd rather be having sex than getting nothing. lol at least if the kisses that don't lead to sex are still actual physical attraction, then knowing that is also better than nothing. I wanna know whether these women actually find me attractive or are just drunk basically.. because then it makes me feel that I might be attractive enough to maybe have a chance Edited 2 hours ago by 2bittz Quote Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted 2 hours ago Share Posted 2 hours ago 6 minutes ago, 2bittz said: yes, that was the main focus of my post technically I think I ultimately want an actual connection perhaps. not sure 100% but i'd rather be having sex than getting nothing. lol at least if the kisses that don't lead to sex are still actual physical attraction, then knowing that is also better than nothing. I wanna know whether these women actually find me attractive or are just drunk basically.. because then it makes me feel that I might be attractive enough to maybe have a chance When drunk, some women may find you properly attractive and be interested in dating you. Some may find you attractive and not want a date. Some may find you attractive and have a boyfriend at home. And some are wearing 'beer googles' and you're only attractive to them on the night. The only way to find out how they really feel is to get their number at the end of the night and call them the next day. Either ask them on a date or ask if they wanna come to your place to 'Netflix and chill' Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2bittz Posted 2 hours ago Author Share Posted 2 hours ago 1 minute ago, basil67 said: When drunk, some women may find you properly attractive and be interested in dating you. Some may find you attractive and not want a date. Some may find you attractive and have a boyfriend at home. And some are wearing 'beer googles' and you're only attractive to them on the night. The only way to find out how they really feel is to get their number at the end of the night and call them the next day. Either ask them on a date or ask if they wanna come to your place to 'Netflix and chill' makes sense. that's what I was thinking. in my experience I have also had beer goggles but on rare occasions still found them attractive after the fact Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted 1 hour ago Share Posted 1 hour ago 51 minutes ago, 2bittz said: yes, that was the main focus of my post technically I think I ultimately want an actual connection perhaps. not sure 100% but i'd rather be having sex than getting nothing. lol at least if the kisses that don't lead to sex are still actual physical attraction, then knowing that is also better than nothing. I wanna know whether these women actually find me attractive or are just drunk basically.. because then it makes me feel that I might be attractive enough to maybe have a chance Do you realize how unattractive this sounds? Let me rephrase what you just wrote and show you what it feels like. “I’m lonely and insecure. I’d be okay with anything, really, even a drunken kiss from a random girl in a bar would be enough if only I knew she finds me somewhat attractive. I really don’t know what I want, maybe I’ll be okay with commitment, who knows, but actually I just want some sex to soothe my fragile ego”. Now, be honest with yourself. If you were an attractive, mature, confident woman, would you date a guy who is projecting this kind of vibe? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2bittz Posted 1 hour ago Author Share Posted 1 hour ago 13 minutes ago, Gebidozo said: Do you realize how unattractive this sounds? Let me rephrase what you just wrote and show you what it feels like. “I’m lonely and insecure. I’d be okay with anything, really, even a drunken kiss from a random girl in a bar would be enough if only I knew she finds me somewhat attractive. I really don’t know what I want, maybe I’ll be okay with commitment, who knows, but actually I just want some sex to soothe my fragile ego”. Now, be honest with yourself. If you were an attractive, mature, confident woman, would you date a guy who is projecting this kind of vibe? they don't know I think like this lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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