JJF4109 Posted October 29 Share Posted October 29 My wife made 100's of media for me indicating her and I are a couple but we do not get to spend time with each other. And sometimes she behaves like she dislikes me or that we are not really a couple. But she took her time to make 100's of pieces of media of her for me showing that she is in love with me. Could it be that because I'm her first everything she does not know how to react to things, gets flustered so to speak, doesn't know what to do basically? Or could I be causing her to be distant? I really miss her and wanna kiss her lips right now and a bunch of more x-rated stuff. She's 7 years older than me as well. We are almost basically also not being allowed to be with each other, it seems coercive stuff going on by people trying to tear us apart. It worries me because what if I'm not available and she starts to need the comfort of another body? Of course I want to be that body. The whole us not being allowed to be around each other. I'm not saying she would just saying this could be exactly what other guys are waiting on and hoping on. How do I get my wife and I directly communicating more like a regular couple, so that we can strengthen our bond. So we can spend time together in person and interact and not just seem like pen pals. PS: I really loved the gift she made me. This is not just two people dating, this is a serious union between the two of us. Just there are weird obstacles. I haven't went deeply into detail about the whole thing. Anyway my wife is an amazing woman to me and I really miss her, I'm willing to do my part to keep her in my life and not just in my life in a limited capacity. I just feel we need to handle things in person more one on one with alone time between us. I feel very fortunate to have her though. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted October 29 Share Posted October 29 You're going to have to explain why you are not living like a married couple if you want advice on how to improve things. This is too vague and mysterious. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 29 Share Posted October 29 I don't really understand what is happening here. Are you guys in a long distance relationship and waiting on a visa or something? But then what's up with "people trying to tear you apart"? What exactly is "100s of media"? Are you actually legally married?? Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted October 30 Share Posted October 30 I guess we will never know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JJF4109 Posted October 30 Author Share Posted October 30 5 hours ago, Els said: I don't really understand what is happening here. Are you guys in a long distance relationship and waiting on a visa or something? But then what's up with "people trying to tear you apart"? What exactly is "100s of media"? Are you actually legally married?? Well I did say she is my wife so we (her and I) are married. 100's of media, media being photos and vids. She is not using me to have access to America and vice versa Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted October 30 Share Posted October 30 1 hour ago, JJF4109 said: Well I did say she is my wife so we (her and I) are married. 100's of media, media being photos and vids. She is not using me to have access to America and vice versa If she’s your wife, why can’t you be with her? Where is she, and where are you? Who is trying to “tear you apart”? I don’t think that preventing a husband and a wife from being together is legal in any country. If you want to see your wife, what exactly is stopping you? How and when and why did you get married? Link to post Share on other sites
Leihla_B Posted October 30 Share Posted October 30 How can we know why you and your wife are not living together? If you won't provide some context, how can we help? Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted October 30 Share Posted October 30 Sorry, but it's impossible to take your post seriously. Media "indicating" that you and she are a couple sure doesn't equate to marriage, but whatever. The way you spend time with another person is by being in the same place at the same time as they are. So make that happen and - like magic - you will be spending time with her, as long as you both want to. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted November 2 Share Posted November 2 On 10/30/2024 at 2:12 PM, JJF4109 said: Well I did say she is my wife so we (her and I) are married. 100's of media, media being photos and vids. She is not using me to have access to America and vice versa If you are legally married, then what is the reason why you can't live in the same county? Link to post Share on other sites
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