Is it right for my boyfriend to benefit from money I make?

[Leihla_B]

8 hours ago, SabrinaBlue1995 said:

Still however he doesn’t seem convinced and says in the future after a few more years. We’ve been together 3 years already. 

What are your goals? If these are your best fertility years and you'll want to start a family, then waiting around for BF is an awfully big gamble with your future with not-so-great odds.

I'd tell BF that I'm walking away while we still think highly of one another. If he ever decides that he's marriage material, he can let me know. If I'm still available then, maybe we'll meet to catch up. Otherwise, I wish him the best.

Edited 8 hours ago by Leihla_B

[Gebidozo]

12 hours ago, SabrinaBlue1995 said:

He says I’m the person he wants to be with long term and we do have a really healthy relationship day to day, he is very caring of my feelings and is emotionally very supportive.

Then maybe you can have an honest, open conversation with him about those financial matters. Tell him that his appropriation of a part of your rent money makes you feel uncomfortable. Tell him that the rigid 50/50 deal isn’t entirely fair as he earns much more than you do. Tell him that he needs to learn to trust you more and let go of his past if he wants this relationship to succeed.