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Changing the location of a first date?


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4 hours ago, fred123 said:

If a girl says "if I play my cards right" I'd be turned off and decline the date. She is talking to you as if she is above you and it's patronising. Like you are a dancing monkey that has to prove to her and seek her approval.  This date will be a disaster and she's not interested. I'd sack it off

@fred123 I think you are misunderstanding. She said this with a winking emoji, she was just teasing. I don’t see it as me trying to seek her approval. 

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3 hours ago, Marka said:

I have and but nothing good came out of it so i stopped. I even used to accept walking dates. Men who invited me to that sort of date operated conveyer belt mentality, jiggled multiple numbers of women, having 3-4 coffee dates per week. I prefer to go one new date per week or per 2 week but to a date which has more substance. It is just two different types on mentality: coffee dates and multidating and proper dates and solo dating:) I prefer the latter.

Guys who invited me for a first date to an activity, dinner or a cocktail/wine bar required reservations were really different to the guys who invited for coffee/walks. Shame it took me too long to realise it. But it could be me I guess, I like go getter and thoughtful type of man.

this one I agree, i would be turned off if some one would told me that. It sounds condescending. Btw I also had guys saying me similar phrases. I didnt go out with them. I think OP this is bigger issue rather than inviting to a wrong restaurant or change a  place

@MarkaTotally with you, but again she said it with a winking emoji so I think you may be misinterpreting it. She is teasing

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30 minutes ago, jgolffan96 said:

@MarkaTotally with you, but again she said it with a winking emoji so I think you may be misinterpreting it. She is teasing

maybe, but in my experience it is just a tip on an iceberg. Be mindful of other signs that she may be a bit full of herself. 

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Just a general advise.

When you think of booking a restaurant date first always ask what type of places they like. I don't like restaurants as first date but l went on plenty of restaurant as 2nd date. The gentlemen always asked me the type of food/places l liked before booking. Sometimes they were surprised at my answer because l don't like fancy places and that's what they had in mind to make an impression. 

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On 11/2/2024 at 8:50 AM, jgolffan96 said:

She said this with a winking emoji, she was just teasing.

This kind of teasing can be really flirtatious and fun, when said with that intention. I hope your date goes well. 

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