Go with your gut/interesting comment

[glows]

1 hour ago, fred123 said:

Yes but what if she tells u she is interested when u ask her? U can't argue with her. Women get mad and gaslight u

Not all women. She’s playing games. 

[Leihla_B]

3 hours ago, fred123 said:

So is it the same thing also when she tells me that when she likes a guy she will kiss him on the first date and pay for things and be flirty and loves physical affection.

You keep asking the same questions over and over to the same responses, over and over.

A woman who would say these things is a shallow nut job. You'd rather stick around and drive yourself miserable trying to parse her words as though applying self-torture will change the fact that she's not worth your time.

With millions of women in the world, why are you stuck on someone who would even speak these things in the first place? You could have met 10 other women by now, but you're getting something sick out of whatever you're doing to your head over this one. Why?

[smackie9]

She must be pretty hot....

[basil67]

6 hours ago, fred123 said:

Yes but what if she tells u she is interested when u ask her?    U can't argue with her. Women get mad and gaslight u

Don't ask a woman if she's interested.   Thing is, if you can't tell if a woman is interested, it means she's not interested.    

[fred123]

2 hours ago, smackie9 said:

She must be pretty hot....

Lol might have a point

[BaileyB]

7 hours ago, basil67 said:

Don't ask a woman if she's interested.   Thing is, if you can't tell if a woman is interested, it means she's not interested.    

Fred, you need to stop trying to analyze relationships based on what a woman says happened in her previous relationship.

Relationships and people are not concrete - they are complex, changing, and unpredictable. 

I agree with basil’s comment above - if a woman is interested in you, she will make her interest known. If a woman is curled into a ball on the other side of the bed - she is not interested - despite whatever she may say. 

[Acacia98]

17 hours ago, fred123 said:

Yes but what if she tells u she is interested when u ask her? U can't argue with her. Women get mad and gaslight u

Why waste your time and energy asking her or arguing with her under these circumstances? Just end the relationship and move on. 

You don't need the other person's permission to decide that the situation is not working for you. You don't need to convince her that you're right. Just make a decision about your own life and go with it.