2ndTryHusband Posted November 7, 2024 Share Posted November 7, 2024 She took all her toys to work with her. I’m staying home with our son today as he is sick, and my wife just left for work. Last night when I got home, as she stayed with him yesterday, I took a brief moment to check on her toy stash, which I found missing. I don’t think there is any possible way she would know I knew about them, but for whatever reason, they were moved. So I got curious as to where she is hiding them now. So while she was giving our son a bath, I went on a bit of a scavenger hunt. I ended up finding them in her work backpack. I figured maybe she stashed them in there temporarily because it was closer and easy access. This morning, I got up, and while she was in the other room, I had to see if she put them back, but they were still in her work backpack. Now, she just left, with all of her toys, going to work. Why would she be taking those to work with her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2ndTryHusband Posted November 8, 2024 Author Share Posted November 8, 2024 I would ask, but I don’t think she knows I know about them, and if I tell her she will know I went snooping. Though, I’m wondering if she took them to work knowing I would be home alone. I have no idea. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 2ndTryHusband Posted November 8, 2024 Author Share Posted November 8, 2024 3 minutes ago, S2B said: Do you usually play with her toys? No. She only recently got them. Most of which she got without telling me about. She only talked to me about the first one. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted November 8, 2024 Share Posted November 8, 2024 What would it take for you to confront your wife about this? Your last thread and this one confirm she is hiding something but you are being very passive while she cmpletely dismisses you. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 8, 2024 Share Posted November 8, 2024 What is the reason you are so afraid to talk to your own wife? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Georgia46 Posted November 8, 2024 Share Posted November 8, 2024 This sounds strange .. I mean work would be the last place I’d want to take them …. even more bizarre, why are you snooping around her stash, does she use them with you? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted November 10, 2024 Share Posted November 10, 2024 You've posted a lot about your marriage, and I'm confused that despite all the things that are going wrong with it, you're (1) still there, and (2) still obsessed about the sex toys. With all due respect, if she wasn't bringing sex toys to work, would that really make a difference in your marriage? Link to post Share on other sites
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