olimpus Posted November 7 Share Posted November 7 Hi, there is a girl i like for quite a while, she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, i train taekwondo and so does she, but in another town, i had some chances to approach, she was standing right next to me, but i couldn't do it, i don't know what to say, and i think i will start saying stupid things Couple of months ago, she won a Paralympic bronth medal, so i was thinking about bringing it up, but i don't know exactly how or what to follow up with Since she won Paralympics, she got quite a famous and i know there are a lots of guys texting her, i think there is no point to start with texting and i have to approach in person I have never had a relationship with girl, so i am quite an inexperienced, she is 19 years old i am 18. I was also thinking that i would only approach her if i won competition myself and feel worthy, but i think there is no time to waste, what do you think i should do? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted November 7 Share Posted November 7 She is probably in pretty good shape and is likely able to present herself pretty well so she likely does get a lot of attention. Go for it and see what she says. Most people who make it to the Paralympic level are able to get around even better than most completely able bodied individuals so she will likely be able to keep up with you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 (edited) Everyone will just say go for it but, you already have put her up on a pedestal, so you don't have any confidence in yourself. Work on your confidence first. practise on approaching girls that don't intimidate you. When you practise enough, you will learn quick conversation starters, throw in some humor, and have the boldness to look her in the eye and smile. This may take a little time but it will give you a better chance of not stumbling all over yourself. Edited November 8 by smackie9 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gebidozo Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 Of course there is no time to waste. Approach her as soon as you can and ask her on a date. And what does it even mean “when you’re worthy of her”? People get together because they like each other, not because they’re “worthy”. Winning or losing medals doesn’t make a human being more or less worthy. This is not a contest and neither she nor you are prizes to win. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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