Is she possibly attracted to me?

[Matthew21]

For the past few months, this clerk at my local grocery store keeps staring at me. At first, I thought "Maybe she's trying to see if I'm going to steal something" but I always pay for my items. And she only pays attention to me. I keep catching her. 

 

One time we had intense eye contact for like 6 seconds until I looked away. Another time I went to pay and she was upfront (off register cause it wasn't busy) and she was talking to her co-worker, she then stopped her conversation and turned her head to look at me. And was doing it the whole time until I left the store. 

Another time, I was in line (only me and 3 other people), and she was walking around the store. She then sees me and stands in front of me but not too close. Her body is facing me. She is looking down at her phone but glances up at me a couple of times. Then left. 

I like her but I'm too shy to have direct eye contact with her or strike up a conversation. Is she possibly interested?

 

I was a cashier and would kind of do the same things she's doing if I found someone attractive, but everyone is different. 

[Leihla_B]

24 minutes ago, Matthew21 said:

I like her but I'm too shy to have direct eye contact with her or strike up a conversation.

Then what do you hope to accomplish, and how?

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Is she possibly interested?

We can't know this. You're in a better position to find out than any of us.

How might you do that if not to converse with her and open that door?

[Gebidozo]

10 hours ago, Matthew21 said:

I like her but I'm too shy to have direct eye contact with her or strike up a conversation. Is she possibly interested?

You’ll never know unless you have direct eye contact with her, strike up a conversation, and ask her out on a date.

[SurfCity]

You should go read your last thread from 5 years ago and see that you haven't grown or forced yourself out of your comfort zone in that time. This situation will end just like that one did unless you change your behavior. You have to talk in order to date. 

[Leihla_B]

On 11/10/2024 at 10:30 PM, Gebidozo said:

You’ll never know unless you have direct eye contact with her, strike up a conversation, and ask her out on a date.

Even if asking her out right away is too tall an order, you have consistent access to talk with her from time to time, and you can make the eye contact that can give you more information.

If you won't even do that much, her interest level doesn't matter because you're wasting it.