max3732 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 When I was at the pro shop I saw this woman who looks like a twin sister of someone I know in another state and I told her that. She told me funny enough someone else told her she looks like someone she knows in the same state. That was about a month ago. Then yesterday I saw her again and she asked me the name of the person and thought that was so funny and asked if I have a picture of her. I told her I'd be sure to bring it next time and asked what area the person lives. Is that enough of an opening where next time I see her I could ask if I could show it to her at lunch or something? I'm also terrible at figuring out people's ages so I don't know if she's in her early 20's or around my age (early 40's) so I'm a bit embarrassed about that. Also if she says no would that make it weird every time I come in for a court? When I meet women on dating apps it seems like they're always far away, so it would be nice to find someone a little closer to me Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 Sure go ahead and ask but generally in these situations when they act conversational to you as a customer often they are conversational with everyone. But no harm in asking. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ami1uwant Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 That’s my typical pathway of random dating….where I meet someone somewhere and we talk some. Then I meet them later and we talk some more. And later I try to find out if single or not by asking them how was your weekend or holidays where a serious SO shoukd come out. Thrn I’ll ask her out. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 When I was in customer service, that's how I interacted with all my customers. And I also had a boyfriend. So @Ami1uwant is correct about getting to know her more and finding out if she's single and if there may be a spark of interest. If you get a refusal, she probably won't feel weird about it because she'd be used to saying 'no' to randoms who ask her out. But you will be able to deal with your own feelings of weirdness? Also, she may not live close to you. Travel time of an hour is not unusual, even in retail. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted November 13 Share Posted November 13 On 11/11/2024 at 6:35 PM, max3732 said: s that enough of an opening where next time I see her I could ask if I could show it to her at lunch or something? I think so, Its worth a shot anyway, they appreciate the bit of spontaneity and there may be a chance of a better connection than the more staged world of apps/step by step organised dating. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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