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Okay so I go to school with this girl and I have liked her for 2 years but didnt decide to talk to her till this year. ANYWAYS she likes me too and we've been spending time together but lowkey girls are confusing not that anything has been happening between us but idk its just a feeling I have. Nonetheless this is the last year we are both going to this school shes going to a diffrent country and so is she but after a couple of years will come to the country that im in, same city in fact. Now obviously i know that im delusional for looked so far into the future but its INSANE how much in common I have with this girl shes basically just the girl version of me. We have another 8 months together. So how do i do this? ( shes amazing )

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It’s not delusional. It’s forward thinking so stop putting yourself down. Can you rephrase or clarify what exactly you’re asking help for? Is how to approach her? I’d start by asking her what her future plans are and if she wants to keep seeing each other. Tell her how you feel if it’s not too soon. 

Also keep in mind there are so many variables when you’re young. She may say keep in touch or you both decide to continue dating long distance but one of you changes your mind the next week or month. This is very common and to be expected.. I wouldn’t place so many expectations for now. Ask her what she thinks about a long distance relationship.

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Congrats on making the connection. I wouldn't start talking about the future this prematurely. You have 8 months to learn how close the two of you will become. Wait until you reach a comfort level with one another that invites such conversations. Meanwhile, enjOy!

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