Butterflying Posted November 19 Share Posted November 19 I just received a beautiful bouquet of flowers from my boyfriend. On a separate page attached to the message it read: Item 2 of 9. That page included details of the bouquet I received. He used ProFlowers online. I asked if he sent flowers to multiple people at once. He said “no.” But it’s hard to believe because one time I discovered that he has a whole list of names & addresses in his Amazon account. He’s always sending stuff to family & friends for various occasions. Why would ProFlowers put item 2 of 9 on the order details with the bouquet? Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted November 19 Share Posted November 19 Did you meet him online? Some people do date multiple people at once when online dating. How long have you two been dating? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butterflying Posted November 20 Author Share Posted November 20 4 hours ago, Sony12 said: Did you meet him online? Some people do date multiple people at once when online dating. How long have you two been dating? I’ve known him for 4 years. I even called ProFlowers to ask the reason they included that page in my bouquet. What does Item 2 of 9 mean. The agent laughed & said it’s a typo. So I asked rather the sender sent bouquets to multiple recipients. He said he can’t give that information since I’m not the person who made the order. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 20 Share Posted November 20 (edited) Let's forget about the 2 of 9 detail for a second and analyse: 1. Sending flowers is not cheap. Does he have the financial means to be sending nine beautiful bouquets? 2. Also dating/wooing nine women would keep him very busy. Is his lifestyle something which could support this without you having any idea? Edited November 20 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 This sounds like spam.... Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 Your mind has to stop going to these unbeleivable scenarios. He probably picked bouquet #2 out of 9 options in the categorie of bouquets he was searching. When we order online there are different people behind that execute the order. They all have their way of doing things. The person answering the phone does not necessary know what people are doing in the back room. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 (edited) On 11/20/2024 at 8:07 AM, Butterflying said: I asked if he sent flowers to multiple people at once. Honestly, this was a really silly question to ask. If a guy is cheating, he's going to lie. If he's not cheating, you're going to look a bit nuts. Did you even consider the logistics of cost or time involved in dating nine women before you asked him? And Gaeta is very likely right about it being option 2 of 9 different bouquets Edited November 21 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 20 minutes ago, basil67 said: Did you even consider the logistics of cost or time involved in dating nine women before you asked him? Back when I was single I used to openly multi-date. The absolute most women I could concurrently "date" was 4 or 5. Even then I couldn't spend any real time with or talking with any single one of them. Anything more was impossible time wise. 9? Omg I can't even imagine. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 What is the reason you don't trust your boyfriend? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Leihla_B Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 6 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: What is the reason you don't trust your boyfriend? Yes, this goes to the heart of it, OP. It certainly doesn't make you 'wrong' or 'bad' to love someone you don't trust, it just will make your life a living hell. Do you want to talk about it? Link to post Share on other sites
ShyViolet Posted November 21 Share Posted November 21 You honestly think he sent flowers to NINE people? That's not even realistic. That's a little crazy. Has anything else happened in this relationship that has caused you to be suspicious of him cheating? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butterflying Posted Wednesday at 05:09 AM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 05:09 AM On 11/21/2024 at 4:17 AM, ExpatInItaly said: What is the reason you don't trust your boyfriend? This is a very good question. I always trust until there's a cause for suspicion. This flower thing is not the first "red flag" so to speak. I haven't caught him cheating. And I'm not looking for evidence. But I know he's attracted to other women. I did consider the cost of 9 bouquets (around $700). He could just write that off as a business expense. It feels like this fell into my lap. Link to post Share on other sites
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