Jemand94 Posted 16 hours ago Share Posted 16 hours ago Since August I (M30), dating girl (F30). seen each other around 10 times. Met via Tinder, which she deleted shortly after we started dating. She was very responsive in the beginning and open. However during this time: - She texted all of a sudden not anymore, after pushing from my side she admitted that she is doubtful (due to past and cost her time to let people into her circle). This was being discussed and not the case after a while. Good contact afterwards; - Found a newly created profile of her on a dating app (sent to me via a friend); she indicated that she felt alone an evening and it was just to kill some time during an evening; - Arguments 2x because she completely misinterprets things that I say (including a meltdown in a restaurant); - Her lovelanguage are acts of kindness. Only when drunk she sends lovey text messages. Which makes it hard what goes through her mind; - Now: distant behaviour from her side again. I suggested to have a break (no contact for a few days). However, I am doubting if I even want to continue. She looks attractive but this is no solid base for something serious. My question: My question is what your guys' opinion is of this all? And what you would do in this situation? Quits, give it some time, reach out to her etc? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted 15 hours ago Share Posted 15 hours ago 100% Breakup 10 dates is not worth all that drama. She is not into you, it's clear as daylight. Know when it's time to quit and go invest in someone more deserving. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted 12 hours ago Share Posted 12 hours ago She isn't very interested, OP. 3 hours ago, Jemand94 said: Arguments 2x because she completely misinterprets things that I say (including a meltdown in a restaurant); And why would you want to date an adult who has a public tantrum? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted 11 hours ago Share Posted 11 hours ago Newish relationships aren't about commitment, they are about gauging whether or not that person is compatible. This is only three months in and she's clearly not the one. Just end it and move on Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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