Lildebi3 Posted Wednesday at 09:37 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 09:37 PM I am new here and I don’t even know where to begin but I need to talk to someone besides my daughter lol she’s getting kinda tired of it 🤣 I was married for 26 years since I was a teenager. I had a very hard childhood and my husband saw an opportunity. He was right, I give him props for that.. when I found out what was really happening he made a choice to silence me. It’s been 2 years and the ways I am still being mentally emotionally and financially abused by him is crazy. His friends are DA’s, judges etc. so I won’t bother listing the abuse it would take up all the server space lol 😜 has anyone else been through an extremely crazy divorce? Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted Wednesday at 11:26 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 11:26 PM Has the divorce been finalized? I think if you take responsibility for how you participated you may grow and understand your position better - and u seats d how to never allow this to happen again. for instance this sentence you used: when I found out what was really happening he made a choice to silence me. You could by stating “I ALLOWED him to silence me.” pivot minimizing your situation - which is rough - I’m just pointing out a different perspective that could help you h seats d how to never be in this situation again. always have a voice. Always speak your truth. He doesn’t have to like it - that part doesn’t matter. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted Wednesday at 11:31 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 11:31 PM @Lildebi3 You may get more responses if you share the story. At present, there's not enough information to connect over Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lildebi3 Posted Wednesday at 11:31 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 11:31 PM (edited) In some ways you are totally right. Thank you. it’s a weird situation that would take forever to explain but he has financial power over all of us. I was supposed to breakdown 2 years ago but I keep going. take a lickin and keep on tickin.. right lol? Edited Wednesday at 11:33 PM by Lildebi3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lildebi3 Posted Wednesday at 11:36 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 11:36 PM 2 minutes ago, basil67 said: @Lildebi3 You may get more responses if you share the story. At present, there's not enough information to connect over I wish I could share everything but it would take forever and I’ve learned that no one cares.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lildebi3 Posted Wednesday at 11:39 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 11:39 PM Just now, Lildebi3 said: I wish I could share everything but it would take forever and I’ve learned that no one cares.. they either want to use your vulnerability or criticize you. I hope there are good people and my optimistic spirit is sure that there is, but I haven’t seen it yet.. I know it’s there somewhere lol Link to post Share on other sites
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