Reeses Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 I've had a crush on this guy for more than a year and haven't really moved on past the infauation stage. I'm just really shy. He, on the other hand, is not. Well, last semester(the end of August 2005), I think I saw a glimmer of hope that he may like me back. He would stare at me while smiling, get in my personal space, and make me as uncomfortable as possible be (it was all welcomed, though). But...this goes for any guy who does what've I listed with me, I think "WTF, what does he want with me?" Especially when the guy's a hottie. I'm like, "maybe he's planning something?" I don't know. Kinda hard to shake over a decade of teasing where the main focus was on how I looked. Now that I think about it, this could be *the* reason why I haven't made any moves on this guy, or any for that matter: Initial Mistrust. Anyway, later on in September 05', my crush made a very bold move out of nowhere, which I...botched up upon reception. Usually not very good in the body language reading. Actually, I'm really horrible at picking up signals from the opposite sex. But this....was just like "WOAH, now attempts to kiss me. I know this guy's a regular flirt, but he hasn't tried to kiss other girls...not like this, well from what I've seen of him. Okay maybe he does like me...or did?" After that little incident happen, he became standoffish, saying two days later that he didn't remember that even happening. I believe him.....he doesn't seem to be the type to go around and purposely hurt a girl's feelings. And just to be sure, for myself, I asked him again on a later date. If he couldn't remember what had happened two days ago, what made me think that he'd remember two months later, totally illogical. For the laspse of time, something happened in my family, thus had to put my personal life on hold for a while. But lately, Dec. 05, he started up the whole staring/smiling thing again. Oh yeah, I'm 20. Does he like me or not? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 If the guy says he can't remember trying to kiss you then chances are pretty high, almost certain, that he is not romantically interested. You say he's not shy, well that would have been a perfect opportunity for him to show you he was interested. If you he doesn't remember he would have taken advantage of what seems, to me at least, an invitation. Even without that incident, if the guy is not shy don't you think he would have asked you out by now? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Reeses Posted January 9, 2006 Author Share Posted January 9, 2006 probably. Just wishful thinking, I guess. Thanks for responding, bluechoclate. Link to post Share on other sites
sparticuss Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Two clasic profiles which he fits. One is the spiteful type who pretends he's in love with specific girls then dumps em. The second, which does seem to be him, is the guy who likes ALL the girls he meets. Sure he likes you, and her, and that othe girl, etc. But he wont walk accros hot coals to be with you. There are still some limits. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Reeses Posted January 19, 2006 Author Share Posted January 19, 2006 I think he's the latter, but that's just based on observations. So I guess it's time to move on. oh well. Link to post Share on other sites
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