BaileyB Posted December 4, 2024 Share Posted December 4, 2024 (edited) 12 hours ago, happyhorizons said: The OP strikes me as a quality lady who has come to a crossroad in her marriage. A quality lady who made a post discussing the fact that she is “bored” in her marriage and considering cheating on her husband. I don’t disagree with your point - she needs to make the best decision for her. But, if her happiness comes at his expense (ie. if she stays in her marriage and enjoys a little flirtation or an extramarital relationship on the side), I would respectfully suggest that that is not a great decision for either OP or her husband. If she is bored in her marriage and her eye is wandering, the best thing to do is divorce such that she can be free to pursue whatever opportunity catches her eye… Her husband will also be free to find someone who is committed and satisfied to be in a relationship with him - because, it doesn’t sound that that’s where this is going if she is bored already - in the “honeymoon” stage of the marriage. Edited December 4, 2024 by BaileyB 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 4, 2024 Share Posted December 4, 2024 (edited) See if you can get an annulment? Set your husband free and you stay single. That way when you get a spark to have another man in your life you'll be free to do it without hurting other people. You should be able to get an annulment. You are not your husband's friend. Edited December 4, 2024 by stillafool 1 Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted December 5, 2024 Share Posted December 5, 2024 On 12/3/2024 at 6:19 PM, happyhorizons said: The OP strikes me as a quality lady who has come to a crossroad in her marriage. So far the quality is not showing up here. That's not to say it doesn't exist. She married for some kind of wrong reasons, and she needs to figure out how to move on without causing any more misery to the guy who made the huge mistake of marrying her. Can you even imagine being married for less than 3 months to someone who finds you "annoying" and "controlling" because you have issues with them hanging out in bars and clubs several nights a week? In the first months of marriage? And who is treating you poorly because they want to be out flirting instead of being with you? Nobody would take that well. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
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