Rizzy Posted December 1, 2024 Share Posted December 1, 2024 My ex and I... were together for 4 years... have to go back...we grew up together..n always liked each other... thru the years we always bumped into each other n it was sparks flying.. silence was around us..it was just us in our own little world...she got married divorced and kids..i as well...she was in bad relationships...i as well..could never hook up due to our far away locations...fast forward 2020...her aunt..who was like a mom to me died...i grew up in her family.. neighbors...we met at the funeral...she..my ex now...moved back locally...both single...few days later we hooked up... noticed serious behaviors..bad behaviors... communication was very off . couldn't hold a conversation by person or text or phone ..just awful..but I gave it chance... started dating after a few months of getting to know each other... still no communication change...time spending with her was upsetting...was always busy with something or someone...her time management was always off...n to go on dates as a couple.. she ignored it anymore...so I had to respectfully start asking questions... they were ignored every time ..so I'm upset n confused...2022..i talk to her sis..she told me...she is damaged n broken...i should walk away..i didn't..wanted to help her as well as still love her.. come to find out she was on meth...seen it twice myself...confronted her about it..hell came out her mouth.... after that she distanced herself... got worse... starting ghosting me... silent treatments... just awful .all blame on me ..I was insecure..i don't trust her ..I was cheating...... NEVER DID I CHEAT... then I found about narcissism... did my study about it .OMG .she has narcissist behaviors.. confronted her about that... she got irate... ghosted me again ...so til this present day.. haven't spoken in 13 weeks ..just nothing ..i emotionally checked out ..i started the healing process... but yet as a caring friend now I reach out to see how she is .i get nothing..it just plays back on my mind over n over n over her saying..i loved u all my life Chris....i always loved u...no man has never showed so much love n care for me .been there while she was sick...was doing meth i found out later...i try to get her mom to help her.. her mom ignored..mom said I wasnt good enough for her..that hurt..mom ignores the truth...im at peace its most likely over...just upset that i was used n most likely cheated on... I thought she... after 30 years of liking n flirting with each other..the day finally came for us to b together..I was so happy but torn as well... what should I do... Link to post Share on other sites
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