Asking out a beautiful hostess at her work

[Wordguy]

I was having a Starbuck's with a colleague a few weeks back and saw this beautiful girl. She left, walked outside and when I was preparing my coffee she walked in front of me and checked me out. I then walked up to her and introduced myself. We talked for a few minutes and I walked with her. She told me she worked as a hostess at one of the top restaurants downtown. She told me to come by sometime. We ended up with me giving her my card and asking her to call me to have a coffee one day.

 

A week later, my work buddy and I go to the bar of her restaurant for a couple beers. I go down to say hi and chat for while with her. She's very glad to see me and smiles.

 

We go back again a couple weeks later and she's happy to see me again. She's telling me about their New Years party and I tell her that I would only go if she is going to be there. She's flattered and says, 'I'm too kind.'.

 

So, I spend the next week thinking about this girl. I planned on going there yesterday to ask her out. She had made suggestive comments about liking sushi so I was going to invite her out for dinner.

 

We arrive at the bar and she says she glad that I'm back and like the place. My friend and I are about to hand her our coats and she asks if we mind if they're put together. I joke, "I'd rather his doesn't touch mine." She says, " that's what they all say at the beginning".

 

It dawns on us a minute later what she is referring to. Very sexy.

 

Later, I'm nervous sitting at the bar with my friend, waiting for an opportunity to talk to her to ask her out. I go down and she's on the phone. When we're leaving, she sees me. I say hi and say I'll see her later. She says she's usually working alone on Thursday's.

 

So, my question is what to do next? I'm thinking of either going next Thursday or waiting 2 weeks before seeing her again. I'd like to ask her out, but don't want to have her get turned off because I'm showing every Friday after work.

[Lucasarts]

um dude this is in the bag

 

shw up thursday talk to her, then on your way out ask her out

 

that simple

[Mary3]

She's giving you the Green Light. Ask her out on Thursday

[JayKay]

I'm not sure what you're waiting for.....

 

 

ASK her out before someone else does!!!!

[Sand&Water]

Go ahead. If you wait too long, she'll lose interest in you.

 

Definately ask her out on Thursday. Be gentle!

[ImpatientinTexas]

Dude ask her out !!!!!!!

[Wordguy]

Looks like the answer is unanimous. And really I knew this was it. I've been chicksh*t with this one, which is weird. My buddy says he's never seen me like this with a girl. I'm usually the ballsy one asking girls out. This one has me all acting like I'm in high school again.

 

I'm going on Thursday and get it resolved one way or another. Usually I do ask for the number, but because she was giving me so many signals I figured I could build a little rapport first. We'll see if my strategy has paid off.

 

Just need to keep myself distracted so I don't get nervous and choke.

[loony]

In every thread you started I saw you fall head over heels for a beautiful girl. And every time it looked like your mind got completely clouded by her beauty. I assume we all fall for a pretty face once in a while, but with you it starts to look a bit worrisome. You seem to be losing your head whenever you see a good-looking woman, as if a button has been pushed. I won't discourage you to ask her out though. Go ahead, but give it a second thought about what I just wrote.